okay, so i met her on myspace. # closed in a hour and went to the movies that night. god, she crawled all over me. i had her blushing, kissing and cuddling like shes known me for years. end of the night, huge k close.

three days later, she seems to start getting distant. i blow it off.
i finally ask her wtf is going on with her. im not trying to waste my time with some girl playing games. she goes, "oh sorry ive been so distant. but maybe its cool if we stayed friends. we both just got out of relationships." i reply, "yah, that was what i was going for in the first place." wtf would i rush into something within a week of knowing her? anyways....

she was still stoked on day2 coming up this friday. shed still message me, you know, "omg i wanna kissssss." but the next day, she pulled the distant shit again. she says friday might be weird now. i asked her why, and she said she didnt know. so tel her, and i quote:
read from bottom up

well, i was going for that from the frst place, but i guess you maybe took it the wrong way.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Ariel Giggles
To: mantawd
Date: Jul 14, 2009 11:53 AM
Subject: RE:


okay good because i feel friends are best bett

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: mantawd
To: Ariel Giggles
Date: Jul 14, 2009 11:50 AM
Subject: RE:


alright.
well its a shame, you seemed like such a cool person. but no offence, i dont need to be wasting my time. maybe itll work out later, friends sounds cool.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Ariel Giggles
To: mantawd
Date: Jul 14, 2009 11:46 AM
Subject: RE:


lol
i cant realy explain it sorryy

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: mantawd
To: Ariel Giggles
Date: Jul 14, 2009 11:42 AM
Subject: RE:


i meant a reason, silly.
im kinda curious whats runnin in that head of yours.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Ariel Giggles
To: mantawd
Date: Jul 14, 2009 11:41 AM
Subject: RE:


haha

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: mantawd
To: Ariel Giggles
Date: Jul 14, 2009 11:33 AM
Subject: RE:


okay like ugh?
sounds like you got somehting lol.

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Ariel Giggles
To: mantawd
Date: Jul 14, 2009 11:31 AM
Subject: RE:


grrr :/ i donttt knowwww
okayy like ughhhhh....
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: mantawd
To: Ariel Giggles
Date: Jul 14, 2009 11:28 AM
Subject: RE:


so youre saying that after we hit it off, all of a sudden it would get weird. am i getting that right?




what the hell is with this damn girl?
im trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. she desnt smoke, drink, party etc which is a winner in my books. but shes just too damn immature.
i spent 20% of my day impressing her dad since he insisted on meeting me.
and $32 dollars on fuckking transformers? please. i want my damn money back.

peace, im going to the supermarket, and the bookstore after that.
-phantom

She may have "temporarily" found someone else and is wanting to keep you in the wings for later. If I'm you she goes in my "friend zone" while I'm looking for other targets. If she shows interest and wants to make out.....do it! And the AMOG may suddenly find HE'S now in the friend zone! Show interest, but just DON'T CHASE! And if you're looking for a nice steady girl, there are things she's not about to tell you. She's playin games and IMHO that is probably not likely to change...

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Yeah I'm going to go along with FireHeart on this one.

Also I think she may have a felt a little slutty for being all over you since she just got out of a realtionship. I have an ex who basically did the same stuff right after she got of a relationship and then she got all distant. I gave her some space while still texting her every now and then. And after some time she said she wanted to meet up...and the rest is history

Ya, that's a good point too csi...Mystery says that if you fail to build comfort properly it will cause her to activate her "Anti-slut Defense" or "Buyer's Remorse" or Both! Basically she feels she has moved too fast and now regrets how she feels for moving so quickly. Sometimes sprinting to the finish has it's consequences (like tripping and eating dirt...lol)

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hm. maybe i didnt build comfort right. but could it be something else? i mean, there was no heavy petting or even tongue. just a few kisses, although frequent lol, and mostly her cuddling up to me. she kept making her moves to me, like playig with my goatee. and after that night, we talked on the phone till 4 am. we both really seemed to click. even when my phone batt died, she wanted me to plug in the charger. so she was def comfy with me. it wouldnt bug me somuch if i didnt know what the fuck is going on in that head >.<

I could in fact be something else. But in my experience, it has something to do with the fact that she just got out of a relationship and you all kissing and cuddling and all that made her feel bad/slutty for moving so fast

hm. you know, youre def right. im gonna message hr every once in a while, just to keep me up for grabs. ad when shes ready, bam. hah. kind of pissed me off though, cause she was a good kisser XD

All the more reason for you to get other woman and keep yourself preoccupied. Because if she really wants you (judging by her actions she does!) you'll be able to tell when she wants you