I have no Problems what so ever with getting numbers, K-closing, my friends all make sure I go out with them now becuase I will appraoch and open anyone without a hint of un-easyness.


My problem is getting second days and texting/phone.

Almost every girl ends up ditching on/prior to the second date or will respond short via text then none there after.


For recent example....


Meet a older Hb8 at a wedding saturday,

opened with your "your to beautifull to be sitting her alone and not dancing;" I took her hand and lead her to the dance floor.

we danced for a while and small talked about who we knew at the wedding and how we ended up there ect.

I excused myself to get a drink and when i came back from the bar I s at down at my table with my friends and did not acknowledge her. Some more good songs came so I went and danced with my friends wife all the while i noticed the Hb8 giving me some serious eyes.

danced for a few and threw her a "i love you smile" as i walked past her table to get back to mine. She damn near jumped up and ran to my table and sat next to me. We talked/danced on and off for the rest of the night, Kissed her a few times then neg'd her and said she kisses like a 5th grader.

That lead to her giving me a very good kiss and her hand in my lap at the table, i moved her hand away and said this is not the place.

We walked out together sat in her car and talked for a few more minutes along with some heavy making out. I then said I was gunna go, got out, to which she followed me out and we got into a pretty heated make-out session on her trunk; only to be interupted by the DJ at the wedding who just happen to be her ex-bf's best friend.

He made some AFc comment like get-em girl or something, her moood changed instantly she was like damn now I'm gunna get a bunch of phone calls and texts from my ex ect...

I said thats no good you don't deserve that ect.. blah blah blah

Then said lets go back to your place and sit down with some wine and get to know each other a lil better. to which she said she would love to but told me it would be "trouble" in a good way if I came over and she didn't want to be that girl, we agreed to a second date on for sunday and parted ways. She called me while on her way home an we talked for about a hour.

I called and chated with her in the early afternoon sunday said I would call her after i got done with a few errons and what not then swing by she said sounds like a plan...

I called later with no answer I'm not on to call twice so i left a vm and never got a call back?

I feel I might be showing to much interest but I gave no more than what she gave me

Sounds like the cardinal sin of moving into seduction without comfort, so she got buyer's remorse