Okay, i've secretly been with this girl from my friends circle and i just found out one of my best buds likes her a lot.
Not to mention he's a raging AFC, the reason we kept it secret was initially we didn't wanna mess up the friend dynamic amongst our little circle...then we discovered he liked her...
she really wants nothing to do with him, mostly because im always worried for the guy and i go to pretty great lengths to keep it a secret.

long story short, she is an amazing girl who deserves the best...but im already bored outta my mind.
I mean when im with her its great and everything, but when i go out with my buddies, or even when im alone, i see a girl id love to game and just wanna go for it.

I love the thrill of the chase when it comes to women, and im afraid of hurting my little fling, because she doesn't deserve to be hurt, ever.


I know i've just rambled on but i just wanna know what to do to cut her off slowly and easily, cuz i mean she's like in love with me...and i don't have the heart to leave her in anyway that will harm her......

Thanks,
FrustratedGreaseMonkey

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why not have a full blown relationship with this girl, mate? make her your LTR.

I too love gaming, admitedly I do not f-close as much as probably if I was not in an LTR. Like you it my pulse racing learning and doing all this stuff. One of the best adrenalin rushes I have had in a long time.

think monica and Chandler from Friends.....

btw, you did not ramble.

Friends always come first, girls come and go but if he is your best mate just tell him you did not know. (unless he verbally mentioned to you-if so *insert shotgun* in mouth and pull trigger.

To get rid of her the following will work:

a) I am HIV positive
b) Under Megan's Law I am obligated to tell you that I am a sex offender
c) I like dick
d) My best friend really likes you and I never want anything to come between us (do this after talking to your friend)


Hint: D

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"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there!"--Copy store clerk (Jerry Maguire)

See the thing is my best mate really likes her, and apparently he liked her for a long time. He didn't tell me or any of the other guys and he just went ahead and told the girl he likes her, he is the nice guy, and the girls find him a bit creepy but i wont let them exclude him...
LOL but the problem is...she hates him, she was never really remotely attracted to him, and when he started crushing on her, he gave off these weird vibes which creeped her out...he didn't know how to attract her, and if he told his buddies (myself included) we could have told him what not to do...(also, he's a big skeptic when i comes to pua, even after we show him it works, he believes his principles and doing the right, nice, thing is always gonna win in the end)


In the end i just gotta stop thinking with my dick, cuz teh sex is fucking great but when we're done and i go home or we're apart again...i no longer want a relationship...not to mention she was the type of girl that was pretty much a pua, she wasn't as needy as she is now.

right now im thinking if i act really needy...nd...like an afc i can get her off my back, but i dont wanna do that because...then i'll be a fuckin creep lol. Besides i've already went on a 2day needy binge, and she's just soaking it all up, it does nothing to deter her from still being nuts over me.

Thanks again guys,
EvenMoreFrustrated

P.S. - I've been going through a shit load of personal problems, so i apologize if rant

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"Everything's eventual"

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It doesn't matter if Megan Fox is asking for an emergency titty fuck and your nice guy friend has gone limp, you do not step up to the plate-just not in the friends code. Fair enough if he did not tell you, as you are not a mind reader. But you need to be a man and rectify the situation. Regardless of how good the sex is, he is a best friends and if you are going to trade him over a girl then you my friend don't deserve friends.

You know who is to blame Disney and your Grandmother-they fill your head with lies about buying diamonds and flowers and girls will fall all over you.

There are always going to be haters, I tried to interest my friends but they would have none of it, even when I was pulling left right and centre in front of them-they just brushed it off as lucky, or it would never work for me.

Think of yourself as Dyson you were a fucking early adopter in the market and you destroyed all the other brands with your new technology.

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"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there!"--Copy store clerk (Jerry Maguire)

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It doesn't matter if Megan Fox is asking for an emergency titty fuck and your nice guy friend has gone limp, you do not step up to the plate-just not in the friends code. Fair enough if he did not tell you, as you are not a mind reader. But you need to be a man and rectify the situation. Regardless of how good the sex is, he is a best friends and if you are going to trade him over a girl then you my friend don't deserve friends.

You know who is to blame Disney and your Grandmother-they fill your head with lies about buying diamonds and flowers and girls will fall all over you.

There are always going to be haters, I tried to interest my friends but they would have none of it, even when I was pulling left right and centre in front of them-they just brushed it off as lucky, or it would never work for me.

Think of yourself as Dyson you were a fucking early adopter in the market and you destroyed all the other brands with your new technology.

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"That's how you become great, man. Hang your balls out there!"--Copy store clerk (Jerry Maguire)

Yeah boss, its real sad that some people will see it and still not believe it.

Anyway, i know i've gotta solve the problem by ending this, and we even agreed early on that it would end quickly, it was just gonna be a fling...but i never stopped gaming, and now she's got me in her lock jaw.

Look, before she was like my best friend...then i started getting into pua and i started trying some stuff here and there on her...next thing i know we're making out on dec 24th shopping downtown.
The fact is i NEED to stop this, BUT she matters just as much as my AFC buddy does (if not more) and i want to end it WITHOUT hurting her...or anyone

So, how do i go about doing this.
and yeah, im asking like for specific things to say, maybe a skeleton i could add things onto...sigh life is so stressful

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