I have no problem if I am with a wing, I have more of a 1.5 second rule then ; ) But last night for the first time, I went sarging alone and just could not find reasons to open. So I just kept drinking leading to rapporting with various people; in the end I opened 3 sets, but in this packed club I should have opened many more and at least had one number.

So how do you lone wolves do it?? I keep feeling like I need a wing for social proof or people are wondering, who the fuck is this dude standing alone / interacting with all these people alone?

Any advice appreciated, thanks.

I go it alone all the time. What you must have is a distiguisher, something that made you stick out more than normal.

I love going lone wolf tho normally pretty drunk!It jus gives you freedom to say what you want and get turned down without care!Just make sure you have a reason to speak to her/break the ice!lone wolf is about being confident if you need to booze up then go for it!

I've been struggling with this myself

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I've been struggling with this myself

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I've been thinking alot about this.
I haven't gone out that much alone, but Im thinking of doin it more often.

I wrote a post on some raw material for a routine called "Imaginery friend".
Check it out and let me know what you think about.

Yeah.. and dont take all the details to serious.
Maybe its easier to talk to people when you have a friend (even though you just make him up) somewhere close...

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This is a great topic, I've been wondering about this a while myself.
It seems to me, that when you are starting out, you need a rock to build off of. I would suggest the wing as your rock, because this is your confidence booster, your back-up, your social elevator, he's pretty much your foundation. In order to stand without it, you're going to need to establish your own foundation internally. You will have to rely on your own strength and confidence.
So in the end, if you are feeling a little overwhelmed at the club or bar scene alone, then try to bring a wing for support.
If you are strong enough and confident enough to tackle "lone-wolf" status, then I you are a true PUA.|
Cheers,
JONAS

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I sarged solo a week ago. A girl sat next to me at the bar, she asked of the seat was taken and I said that I was meeting a friend here, but until then, she should sit there (took control of the conversation). I waited a few minutes and then started some quick small talk and then said that I was bored and let's play a game....did 5 lie and it was on from there. One thing that seem to word well was we left the original bar and went to a different one, so now we were "together" instead of two separate people at the same place. Ended up k closing with an f close less than a week later. Just have the same confidence and game that you would if your wing was there and you should get the same results. Hope this helps.

AzErNy

I am completely new to the scene and I have no friends currently that I can sarge with. I have been going out on my own and I feel I am actually doing pretty well.

At first I felt weird about being alone but what you have to realize is that they don't know you're alone. You could have friends just across the room.
If you are really worried about it pretended you have friends in the place that you need to get to and create a false time constraint.

open the set over the shoulder of course act like you are in a bit of a hurry.

"hey blah blah blah ... going to meet friends ... blah blah (neg neg)" then if you successfully opened the set turn toward them. Most likely they will forget that you said anything about your friends unless of course they don't enjoy your company.

Another option is open to a set of guys near your target set and then open the target set and lose the guy set.

"Hey guys ...(short story and once target set realizes your the life of the party)... let me get by you real quick" onto target set.

I wish I had someone to sarge with that way I could truly scale how I am progressing.

Yea I agree here. I go alone whenever I can. That way whenever I'm out with other people it gets that much easier for me since I'm already more comfortable in my environment.

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I do it but I don't really like it. I don't think I put myself in the right mindset all the time (sometimes I do).

Sometimes it feels like I HAVE to make everyone here my friend or I will feel like a loner. I'd rather be out with friends so that I can always return to them if I get bored with a set or even shut down.


The only way I have found to enjoy this is to go early and befriend the bartenders and other small sets there early. I cannot compete with loud music so it's the best way for me.

hey guys i normally go solo .nobody to sarge with normally here in cork ireland.my plan normally go out on the busy nights normally tues and thurs.both collage nights and sat for the weekend.i enter the club late normally 12.30.clubs close here at 2.00.anyway enter with a high energy level and open sets quickly only have 1 hr 30 mins to s.poof the room and find the hotest hb in there (false time constriant) for yourself!!.having v.good looks does help me but i think my game is tight also.normally f close most nights now:). the key for me is that beening alone i really have keep moving and push my comfort level and not stop and stand like a wall flower because dats when AA kicks in i have very little now!!! and also be very alpha in my swagger in the club believe when u walk in u are the shit and then the women will respond to your high value level..
hope this helps somebody..
p.s i do this sober ..

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