I've been seeing this girl lately, and things are awesome.
Problem though.
Whenever I go to try escalate the make out by moving my hands south, she just grabs them and puts them back on her breasts. She doesn't skip a beat but just keeps going. She doesn't say anything about it.



So what I want to know is, how do I get past this? Should I bring it up?


EDIT:
When we make out, it gets really heated. Both of our tops are off, most of the time her bra is thrown somewhere in the room. She's rubbing my cock through my jeans. But yeah, the moment I even touch her panties she grabs my hands.

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Cardinal:

Ever heard of freeze-out? When this happens, completely stop sexual activity. Turn on the lights, blow out the candles, etc. Make the mood completely non sexual. Don't do it like you're frustrated or trying to punish her, act like you're completely fine either way, you'd just prefer not to do sexual activity at this point. Do some normal activity, don't make it over awkward. Eventually, she will be okay with escalating.

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Yours,
Red Hot

Well pretty much this is the same thing as the freeze-out, but what i would do is notice any LMR asap(such as muscle tension, or clam up), before she says anything. Why? Because once a women verbalizes her resistance it will be harder to handle. So once u notice any LMR quickly pull back and do something else. At this point the girl might give you the whats going on look, so i usually keep the TV or radio on, as an excuse to do something else while she tries to feel comfortable again. If she doesn't do anything within a minute or 2, you can start again. It is important that you dont seem unhappy with her, you just have to look natural and that you are not in a hurry to escalate with her, and that you understand that she needs more time to feel more comfortable. This process can be done multiple times ideally you will get farther each time.

-Ciao hope that helps- Fate