Alright im a guy that's seriously infected with one-itis. Im normally not that bad with girls, manage to open them up, blend in with their interest, then with my own interest... and then it all goes from there.

But the girl i actually LIKE. man she's tough, its been a long time since ive been going for her. Took me some work to open her up, then to just a friend.... finally there's a period when i completely ignored her, but then she kinda start looking for me and calling me to talk.... But its really difficult, she has her own circle of friends while i have my own, and they DO NOT blend well, she generally just studies, does alot of boring sutff....and doesn't have any hobby and stuff, and ALSO doesn't seem interested in my stuff... but she somehow always finds me and call me, we talk about pretty much nothing, i would crack some funny lines and so on to make her giggle... but man im almost OUT OF FUEL....

Thing i really don't get is, she manage to have alot of friends, guy friends, probably cause she's hot. And occasionally she'd go party pretty hard. I can't seem to find anything to talk about except for useless things that at least keep her interested....... Im even starting to get scared to call her to go out, because i really don't know WHAT we should do anymore..... Fustration ><

As long as you are so concerned with how she is going to react, you will never have a decent conversation. The only way to have a good conversation is to enjoy having, and you can't enjoy a conversation if you're so worried about what she is going to think about you. You are too invested in her reaction. You're so scared to say anything that might offend her or make you look bad, that you have nothing left to talk about.

Your only solution is simple. Talk about whatever the F*** you want to talk about. Don't be so concerned about her and what she wants. If you are excited about what you are talking about, she will be excited to listen to it. But if you are talking about boring things that you are not interested in just because you think she might be, then she won't be interested in hearing talk about it either. Obviously stay away from things she can't relate to like work or computer stuff, but other than that, if it interest you then talk about it.

Besides this. The whole one-itis thing concerns me a bit. You have to realize you can't build attraction. It's not something you work towards. You can build report, but attraction is instantaneous. She is either attracted to you, or she isn't. You may be able to do somethings to flip that attraction switch, but it's not cumulative. You can't work on it slowly over time. And as quickly as it is flipped on, it can be flipped off. So it's not like you could store up attraction like brownie-points anyway.

That being said, I have to mention the fact that you can't talk a girl into wanting to sleep with you. You could have the greatest conversations of all time and all that will do is make her like talking to you. Enjoying a conversation doesn't equal sexual interest for women. A mater of fact, being a good conversationalist without adding any sexual tension or escalation is the quickest and easiest way to end up in the friend zone. If you are going to talk a lot, don't forget to flirt. And don't forget to kino when you see her in person. And work on all the non-verbal aspects of pu, like body language and facial expressions.