Helllo fellow PUAs !!!

How hard is it to handle lots of rejections? I hit a sticking point on this issue. And I hope you guys can help me.

I've been talking to some of my friends about the percentage of rejections they face when compared to the percentage of successes with women. None of these friends of mine use the strategies that most on this website use. Yet, they are naturally good at picking up babes. So, I asked them how good they are. They said that a lot of the times, they get rejected. Yet, these are the guys who are having relationships with 3 or 4 HBs at one time !

So, this question is about appraching and closing. It doesn't matter if you are a newbie or an advanced PUA. I just want an honest answer to make myself realise that picking up any woman, let alone an HB, is a real challenge.

In terms of percentages, what is your rejections like? By rejections, I mean the failure to get an email, phone number, or even Facebook-close her.

Also, it must be hard to keep going if you keep getting rejections in the 80 to 90% region?

I'd love to hear from you all.

Clooney

Is it a challenge? YES, it is a challenge and it takes a while to get good. It took me about a solid year to get good.

I can appreciate what you are trying to say but for the most part no one really keeps a tally as they approach woment throughout the night and writes these results down to figure them like this. Even if they did there is a bit of a credibility issue keeping your own stats.

For example on this last Friday evening I approached 3 women, got 3 #s, kissed two of them, and got 1 day 2. Yes, I have a witness to all of this. I used direct natural approaches each time. All of them are still messaging me at the moment. So how do you want to compute that?

I succeeded in my approach and my ability to get numbers. Failed 33% of the time at kissing, and 66% of the time at getting a Day 2 that night. Others will convert to a date I'm sure of it but they didn't that night, so how do we compute that?

It really doesn't matter what my numbers are, or anyone elses for that matter, what does matter is that I am trying to improve my life. You are going to be rejected a lot, so embrace it!

To quote the famous Michael Jordan - "I have missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I have lost almost 300 games. On 26 occasions I have been entrusted to take the game winning shot, and I missed. And I have failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is precisely why I succeed."

Luckily he had score keepers and statically analysts to help him out, I don't have people like that following me around. Even though I'm good about writing field reports there are many that don't get written. There are probably no TRUE statistics on this out there which is unfortunate for us analyticals like myself.

However, with all that being said even if I knew the odds would it make a difference? No, I still have to go out approach and see what happens. If you truly want to make a difference in your life the numbers don't matter, you'll have to create my own good fortune.

Good luck on your journey,

Jon

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