well just got a text from this girl i was suppose to see tonite 3 hours before meeting up. She said she's not feeling well, but still wants to meet me sometime. WTF?! whats the best way to deal with this? i don't want to let her off the hook that easily but i dont want to sound like an asshole. -thanks

hope this resolved in ur favour.... no one responded tho..

just tell her straight... not funny or asshole like.. be a man... and say

"hmm seems like ur just kinda shy.... thats fine.. really... i DO however find it annoying when people make plans and flake out on them. So if you really want to see me again.. make sure you can actually stick to it. Cuz if nothing else... i think we could be good friends"

the last part is a d'angelo thing.. which works really well.. even now.... YES say friends...
the more you treat her like a FRIEND.. the more she will try and make you NOT....

this is also a good time to use another one of his tactics which works extremely well which is getting her to come to ur house FIRST.

id do it after she says "ya sorry... really.. im not shy.. i wasnt feeling well.. when are u free then?"


say somthing like

"well you can pick ANY day this week.. as long as its weds or thurs.... there is a bar/coffee shop/whatever near my house. i can actually see it from my window...we'll go there...heres my address.... stop by at 9.. ring the bell and ill come out. we'll go together.... just in case ur "not feeling well" again...or ur late...cuz i dont like late!!"

she'll come ...she''l EXPECT you to get her inside for a bit.. DONT.. grab ur coat.. get her out of the lobby and en route...


that with the friends comment should get her amped enuff to be fighting for u to want her all night... just be cool and let her talk most.....
just repeat this with any flakes.. is also good to do it first time around and jsut say "cuz i hate it when ppl are late or bail on plans.. just ring the bell so im not wating for u somewhere."


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