So I went to the gym yesterday and approached an HB 9-9.5 at the desk and eventually got her to agree to meet me at my place on saturday, and we'll go for a run. I did very little game, it was a lot of luck, and actually pretty AFC, but I still got the day 2 with an amazingly hot girl.

How do I keep her from flaking?

1) She works at the gym I go to, and teaches pilates classes tomorrow morning. I want to go to the class, take it, and make some very easy small talk, just to bridge the gap and increase the chances of her showing up on saturday. However, i feel like this is try-hard.

2) I think that another good option would be to go the gym, talk to her, and express interest in her pilates class, but not actually take it; and say something like "so what days do you do pilates" she says "oh today actually" i say "well monday works better for me, this is my day off and I don't want to waste it all at the gym"

what do you guys think. how do I bridge this time gap, and are either of my ideas above (1 or 2) worthy of doing? Thanks

I dont think u "need" to do anything apart from chase up a few day before via txt or summin and then jus wait... if u played it right she should turn up regardless, the problem is she maybe suprised when she realises ur intentions were not for a run etc..

Did u make it clear etc that u were flirting and u do fancy her? body language? tonality? or did u jus ask her if she wants a run?

The "time gap" is fine, u rarely need to bridge them because,
when she gave u her number / agreed to day2, she would of already decided whether she was "interested" or being "polite", this is the key to the game, not chasing her up making sure u get dates etc...

we didn't exhange numbers. I just see her 3-4 days a week when I go to the gyms and she's working.

I did not show overt attration to her. I was using very indirect game. She knows that I'm in to her though because I was asking only her to run. In order to keep her feeling okay with it, I suggested that we meet in the parking lot of my building. I'm going to either try to pull her after the run for a drink at the beach to recharge, or at this point I'll exhange numbers.

I am planning to keep indirect game, and just work on escalating kino tomorrow.

Certainly sounds like u have a game plan my friend, I wouldn't rely too much on being indirect, after all u want to fuck her don't u ?

Maybe just get yourself pumped before u go out, make sure ur energy is maxed out when u around her, that should do u some real favours in the immediate future, stay charged, stay focused and stay persistent

That's very true, about getting in to the right mood. As I'm sure a lot of you have noticed, when you're in a great mood, approaches are easy, regejction is no big deal, you're smiling, and sets work very well.

It's tough to get pumped up all the time though. Music, and being with friends are the best i've found

by the way, she flaked. I ran anwya, had a great time. I'll make fun of her about it next time i see her