how do you do it?

ok sorry for the minimal info but didnt think it would post, thought you needed 50 post before you could start one...

anyways the info.... basically living with this girl (among others), but cant get her outta my head... i really like her (as you can see, judging by the original post) and think about her constantly.. i know most of you will think im a complete loser, and maybe i am, havent kissed her or anything yet but do spend a bit of time with her, either chattin or watchin shit while chattin but am just mad into her... not sure whether im giving her loads of IOS's or not but really dont think im recieving the same number as im giving...

WHAT DO I DO.... HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!

i know they always say, "better regret doing something, than not doing something" but i always come up wiht these kinda plans of say having a few cans with her in the gaf and then coming asking her out then, but she recently got bad news on her liver so doesnt drink and really dont know how i can ask her out sober... i know im only livin with her another 4/5 weeks but meeeeeehh!!!!

HELP

http://www.metacafe.com/watch/972937/me ... nique_eft/

Tapping can get ride of the emotional dependency you have for her.

If I were you, I would just go direct and tell her a statement of interest. You only have 4/5 weeks to be with her anyways, it can be a really *fun* one if it goes off well.

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Heya Bro,

I understand your situation thats why I will try to help. Technically its up to you to decide what to do best , but theoritically we can tell you what to do , the reason is if you take a decision based on someone from a forum you will regret it later because it simply wasnt "you"

You have to be honest with yourself and know excatly what do you want from this girl , is it mere physical attraction or does it go further than this . Once you have established the reason why you like her Its time for you to act on it , now remember that you have to take into mind that this feeling your having right now is simple chemical reaction in your brain making you preceive her in this way. Secondly you have to know that if it doesnt work out with her there will be another to worry about.

Be a man stand up for what you want , if she wants out she wants out , if she is ready to take it on a higher level take it but dont jump into conclusions. My point is dont be egotistical about it just go for it *without lashing your emotions all at once* take it easy and chill.

Hope it helps bro

AVK

Neg x3 and compliment. Play some push pull and wait for the proper amount of ioi to jump in. I personally am a strong believer in the quicker the close the easier to maintain the relationship. Go for it, if nothing works then don't make it awkward and try to maintain the closeness you've built from living together. If she doesn't want a direct approach you do live with her.. Start mind fucking her and teasing a little more to let her know you could be more than friends, but she's not showing she wants to be. Look for those ioi at all times, love is a sometimes thing, somedays she may want you and others she might just not be in the mood.

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