I'm really in to the PUA game, but I have a limp. I've asked this before, and yeah maybe I'm fishing for compliments, but it's hard to approach a girl when your self conscious about a limp, I mean she obviously notices just like everyone else. I've successfully opened girls, and even gotten to midgame. But it's hard for me to close because i just keep thinking they care about my resemblance to Tiny Tim. I would appreciate some advice, thanks.

- justgimpit.

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justgimpit, cripples are funny too and we'll prove it

Good game conquers all. A limp obviously isn't ideal, but everyone has their weak spots.

Remember this, attraction isn't a choice. A guy with a limp and good game will still be successful. A guy without a limp and no game will not.

It's all about the game. External factors are negligible.

Wolfus

Brah just pretend like its not even a issue, not a handicap to your game.

You'll be surprised how much girls care about certain shit. And is it a heavy limp? Injury? Try working out your legs a bit and see if you cannot knock a bit of it off....that way you can gain some inner confidence over it.

It's not a huge limp, but unfortunately I'm stuck with it. One of those, born with it, kinda deals. I usually use humor to disarm it as an issue and most girls go for it, but unfortunately there's no working out I can do to lesson the limp itself. I've been doing a lot of research on inner game and motivating yourself and stuff but it's been a struggle. I mean I'm a personal trainer by profession and play music as a hobby/hopefully profession one day. The body as a whole isn't really an issue. I'm just trying to get to the point where I really don't care. Any advice on inner game to conqure this BS. Thanks

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justgimpit, cripples are funny too and we'll prove it

Go out and prove to yourself you can talk to girls without having a "self imposed limitation"? Best thing to get over your mindset.

Do girls check you out? hold eye contact? Idk what more you need if you have some chicks already that except you for who you are.

I can tell you that having a limp doesn't pose as much of a problem as you seem to think it will. My former debate partner has a limp, and is well regarded in our area as a pick up artist. Depending on how you do it, I think that humor about the limp before it becomes necessary could be seen as self-conscious, so tread carefully. My buddy occasionally makes jokes about his limp, but I usually only see him do so when it's in context to something in the conversation. Most of the time, it's a non-issue.

Hugh Laurie has a limp on the show House and it seems that he deals with it pretty good. Hes' been called a "sexy jackass" probably to his dont giva a damn attidude.

Wear rollerskates.

Hey man, play it like you got it in a motorcycle accident or something.
And remember you're who you are because of your personality social skills and integrity not your exterior. , thats just the billboard for the inner content

dude a limp could be actualy cool, you could peacock a lot with your cane, like a fuckin pimp, have you ever seen dr house, with that fuckin limp he looks cooler than without it, and use a lot you kane, to maybe do some manipulations with it, good luck chuck

linceed

dude ur fucking house! lol, ur a pimp, u can be anything u want to be. like linceed said, u have to work it to ur advantage. there is no reason why that couldn't be a HUGE anvantage. like if i saw a guy with a cane and a limp but he was a cool guy, i would think "this guy is special, he's a really cool guy".