So normally I'm pretty good at this, but anytime I find a girl I actually like and want to have a relationship with, I always fuck up. We've been going on "dates" for a while now and we sleep together in the same bed pretty frequently but for some reason I can't seem to get the fclose right. I've told her how I feel in ambiguous terms but it never really amounted to anything (exacerbated because I left for a week after I told her that for a business trip). Anyway I'm going to see her tomorrow night and I NEED to make it clear what my intentions are and that I want her. Any advice? It feels like this is my last chance to make my intentions clear.

Kino increases the sexual tension. Kiss her, but kiss her in a seductive way. Do it slowly, and not just on the lips. Kiss her slowly on the neck and her ears. Women melt from this.

I'm under the impression that she's already seduced and you've done everything BUT fclose her. Be a cock tease. Act like you're going to fuck, and then withdraw. Get her going to the point where she can't take it any more and is just ripping your clothes off.

Definitely will do...the other thing I'm worried about is that I may have slipped into the friendzone because for a while, I didn't make any moves (after a friend whom I trusted told me she had herpes) for a couple weeks until I found out that he was actually BSing me

One thing that really stands out to me is that you've slept in the same bed with her, but have yet to have sex with her. I have never been in a situation in which I just slept in the same bed with a girl without ever actually having sex. It seems like a pretty awkward situation. The good news is that if you have already got her into bed, you shouldnt have problems getting an f-close. It sounds like you are just telling her how you feel. That will not work. You are gonna have to make a move. My suggestion is that you kino as much as possible (without seeming like you are trying too hard) and find the right opportunity to just start makin' out (make sure you are at your or her house). If you get her to that point, just tease her a bit and its basically a done deal from there.

Basically, pull a Nike and "Just Do Her". The hard part is over. Good luck.

just caveman it. if she shows LMR, freeze out and try again. attraction is not a choice. and one very important thing man: dont worry about losing a friend while trying to get in her pants.