Hey guys. So i've been hangin out with http://fastseduction.com/asf-faq.shtml#q001 for about a week. We've just been studyin together.. haven't really got any time together to "hang" out. We were actually going to go ballroom dancing on friday but it was cancelled by her because of a legit reason. She had mentioned earlier that she would take me out to dinner to check out some restaurants. So i think i'm going to ask her to do that this upcoming week. But i'm not really sure if she thinks of me as a potential mate. She has called me "really nice" in the past a few times... which is not good. Any advice..

Description of girl: In to sports, very school dedicated. Doesn't drink of smoke.(Which is good cause those are all things that we both have in common.) She is a really nice girl.. which is why it's hard to figure out if she likes me or not.

I had also told her that I was not specifically looking for a girlfriend right now, but if the right girl came up, I definitely would go for it. And then, I had asked her if she was looking for a relationship at this time... she responded by saying that she was kind of talking to another kid, but she doens't really know whats going on with that... and also said that she's keeping her options open...

In the past week, we have spent a lot of time together... if she's not sleeping or in class, she's usually at the gym or studyin with me....I hope I am not in the friend zone already cause I really do like this girl...

I asked my friend and he recommended to be agressive .. If so, then how?

... any advice????

YES!!! I was waiting for a good question... How to be aggressive huh? Show your interest in her in a confident, dominant, sexy manner?

Here you go brotha!, Eye Contact. The eyes tell all, When you are talking with her, remember this one FACT: The words you 2 are saying dont mean a gotdamn thing compared to the burning hot connection you can create between the two of you.
If your really into her, you need to show it in your eyes, when you look into hers. It's an I want you look, You stare into her eyes and give a smile that is congruent with the feelings you have with her... Remember, you can say very little during the entire interaction, and have that HOTT connection, and have a great time with her. Stop fucking using regular conversation wit her, it gets you NOWHERE, you HAVE to turn up the heat.. I do it 99% of the time, and I ALWAYS turn up the heat. But ofcourse, Ive had lots of practice. Every now and then, you touch her and pick wit her, stare into her eyes, a stare that says I want you baby...do not turn your eyes away until she turns away. It WILL TURN HER ON.. When you two have flirted enough, time to start making out. My dates happen this way 95% of the time. Be REAL WITH YOURSELF, DON'T HIDE YOUR ATTRACTION FOR HER. JUST DON'T SAY "I LIKE YOU ALOT" OR "DO YOU LIKE ME?" THAT IS CHODE. BUT ONCE YOU ARE REALLY COMFORTABLE, YOU CAN STARE HER EYES DEEPLY AND SAY "I WANT YOU" IT WILL ALMOST SURELY MAKE HER FALL IN LOVE. BUT YOU HAVE TO DO IT FROM A POSITION OF POWER AND ALPHA. THIS SHOWS THROUGH THE EYES. AND IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT SHE WANTS, IT ONLYH MATTERS THAT YOU WANT HER....

HAVE FUN!!

manman seriously ya def know ur shit... the eyes are the key, if ur in the LJBF's zone its a bitch to get out, but like manman said the eyes are possibly your way out. try it and if it doesnt work, move on and find another chick, but seriously try the eye's thing, dont go for one shot and quit try that shit out before giving up. giving up is for AFC's dont be one, be a real man and get wat you want! lets hear bout your progress WHEN it DOES happen cause we all know you got it in ya to go out and do it! cmon man well be waiting to hear!

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MANMAN!!!!! YOUR MY HEROOOOOO (screaming in a girly voice)
good thing i saw this post, i was in the same situation but now i got it, thank you so much bro, i kept thinking of qualification and crap, but now i see, i have to hit it off hot, hope his advice helped you Jig

ha thanks a lot guys!!!! I will definitely try this out the next time we are together...

Hey thanx guys.

Hey So i've invited her to watch a movie with me and she has agreed.... I'm wondering how to escalate kino.... any ideas?????

You reach over and look into her eyes and move in slowly, and when you feel like it.. At the very least, you will feel like a man, and that can sometimes be more satisfying than getting the pussy.

"Hey So i've invited her to watch a movie with me and she has agreed.... I'm wondering how to escalate kino.... any ideas?????"

First is this going to be at your house or at a movie thearte?

Run down: Sit down next to her on the couch(or w.e), Observe if she sits close or on opposite sides of the couch. See if you can press your space...if you get in close does she oppose and move away or stay put? Simple shit like that can cue you for your next moves.

If its at the movie place: Fav trick here(do not attempt unless your sure she'll respond to it) Sit down with the arm rest/cup holder up, that way you can be extra close to each other. See how her comfort levels are...if shes extra close(i.e sitting over where the rest comes down) say woah take it easy we just sat down and your getting this close already(proceed to pull the arm rest back down separating you two).....::insert her cheeky remark back:: respond back Oh i guess ill let it slide this time then proceed to put the rest back up. Golden from there on out...

i gotta say a great trick that works all the time for me, (again if you've seen my posts this one is not when im in my highschool scene, when im with my college friends), when you guys are on the couch the eyes say it all. if she looks over to you and u look over and she doesnt immediatly look away (unless shes always shy) shes into ya. just kino escalate with the arm over her and with ur eyes. the whole thing that MAF said is so true about sitting to close and what you say in response. if you can get that in your golden. otherwise just kino escalate normally and you should be fine

good luck man keep us posted.

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Actually this is not at a house or a movie theater...... It's at my college dorm.... The room is set up so there's two beds on both sides of the room. And the TV is in the middle...

I don't know if she's going to want to sit on my bed or just my computer chair.. I don't want to force her to sit on my bed... so i am kind of stuck..

But that's not my biggest obstacle..

I met her about 2 weeks ago. We hung out like everyday for the first week.. Once we talked about relationshps, she told me that earlier she was "Talking" to this kid named John. But at the moment, she had left her options open.

The second week.(This is currently the end of the second week).. Soo, the second week, i saw her with the John kid a bunch. I think that they've been hangin out this whole week.. I actually saw them eating lunch this morning...

We are planning on watching this movie 2 days from now.. And I feel like she is slipping away.. So i don't really know how much I can do. I feel like I am limited as of now because of this john kid..
That's why I am hesitant on doing a lot of kino.

I am not really sure of what to do next...
I am in a really sticky situation..
Anything at all that I can do so I am the kid she thinks about instead of the John kid..?????????????
Any Ideas????

if i was you mate i wouldnt mention this john guy at all! just ignore the fact he exists. when she comes over, think in your head that you are the only thing this girl wants and needs. play fight with her so that she gets use to your contact. tease her, about being a goody-two-shoes or whatever the situation calls for. give her a playful slap on the leg, when she slaps back..your in! IOI! you grab her and hold her close playfully. lean in and kiss her. ,make every move playful and fun. she'll have forgotten about this john guy by the time your done. remember, playful, fun and physical!
good luck buddy

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