This is my problem,

I get their numbers easily, meeting them again is no problem, I even get to fingering and licking them, and them jerking me off. But I just can't get further than that, no bjs or fucking.

Lately I've had this HB8, nice and sweet, been meeting her every now and then, and we've done all the above in some pretty unusual places, like in front of the library, but I seem to be unable to get forward from that. She says she's shy, doesn't want to have sex where someone might see her, but I'm thinking that's bullshit. Maybe I should just dump her, but I've gotten used to having her do these things, even if it's starting to get on me that there's that wall.


Anyway, how do I get her to suck and fuck me? We both share apartments, so personal time is unavailable, but we've been going outdoors and doing stuff in parks and even in places like a storage room, but she doesn't seem willing to go further in those places.

I'm starting to think I'm being pulled along, and getting one-itis, good thing I've got and event next weekend, it'll take my mind of her.

...damn, just realized I haven't been alpha enough, when she brushes me off in those situations, I just drop it... anyway, ideas and help are much appreciated.