me and my friend were talking to a couple of girls we had just met the other night... we were both sitting on one sofa and the girls were on another sofa at a right angle. we were having fun, dhv'ing and getting some ioi's. all very nice.

but i couldnt kino escalate because they were sitting away from us and i wasn't sure of the best way to either swap so that there was a girl and guy on each sofa perhaps?

i guess i could have done palm reading, but iv forgotten how to do it )

any other ideas?

cheeeeers! Jubz

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Yeah,

thats a bit tricky... the best is going to be like you said... palm read, thumb war, take her hand and spin her... or get everyone standing up and moving.. i.e. bounce

the longer you stay in that enviroment the harder it is to escalate... one thing to do is pull your target... i.e. hey i kinda like.. hb so and so.. do you guys mind if i just take her over there to "show her something" or "talk to her"
lalala

JMT,
Lucky

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I couldn't find any stats on death from approaching a woman.

cheers dude, yeh i think you're right.

one thing that worked a bit better though... (if you are with your wing) is for them to get the obstacle or girl sitting next to the hb to come and sit next to them for reasons above, eg palm read etc (we were at a quirky bar the other day and there was connect 4 so i challenged the obstacle to a game, told her to sit next to me and told my wing to bugger off, and he 'had' to go sit next to the hb)

a bit of a sacrifice, but it doesn't matter if they say no, and doesn't look like you're coming on to the hb.

all very indirect though, maybe you should just say "i want to sit next to you and flirt" il try that next time

Jubz

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