Went to meet up with two girls who my friend (AMOG) brought along. He does not know about pickup. Their was a bit of a language barrier between myself and the women. It was clear that he already had his target. He is the AMOG that speaks and speaks. It seemed to me that i began to take over the frame by simply being witty and he looked at me as if i just killed his mother. How do i disarm?

He is my friend. I understand i was playing wingman. However, this is a continuous pattern with this amog. Want to win over my social circle.

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can you guys believe what youre reading here?!

Really, what the fuck?!

Rule One: Bros before hos. There is No such thing as a friend who is an amog. That you could even think such a thing digusts me.

From an evolutionary angle...youre the sort of person who got the planet in all this shit to begin with.

Wow epic flame, also, who cares?

Flaming won't solve the problem either of you have.

ok....well, that was kind of a mean response, but there was some truth in there.

First of all, if he's your friend, I don't see why you can't just talk to him if you REALLY feel like you are being shut out of the social circle, which it seems like you are not.

More importantly, if he's your friend, you don't want to DISARM him. You wanna help your friend. Unless your friend's target is a girl you've been after for a while and he completely ignores that, you should be as helpful as you can.

NOW, that said...he should also help you. Like I said, you can talk to him and just be like, "dude, I kinda like ______ or want to talk to _____ more" or something and totally help you out.

I know that whenever I'm out with my friends, we just feed off each other, and the girls totally enjoy us even more. We're funny, witty, and entertaining when we are all together.

Also- there's no rule saying just because your friend is alpha, you can't be too. I mean....shit....i have tons of friends that are alpha and would be seen as AMOGs, but that doesn't mean i'm not gonna hang with them/sarge when they're around. But we never compete over girls. That's an important thing. We're friends- that means more than some girl.

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Yea, the wise and tall man would say "Friends before bitches"

Friends are something special, I tell you that.

Bitches come and go. If you ignore or fuck up your relationships with friends you will have nothing after that ho moves to her next fuck.

Just write to your forehead, palm, sole and top of your dick: "Friends > Any woman"

Please no one comment "Friend can be woman"

You know, I would say AMOG is, well made up horse shit. I believe it was Mystery that came up with AMOG. Ok let me explain something, maby you will see a pattern here. Ok, ALL WOMEN ARE OUT TO GET YOU. They are so mean, in fact you get a really scary approach anxiety in your body......... 2) ALL WOMEN ARE HIGHER VALUE THAN YOU, THEREFORE YOU MUST "NEG THE TARGET" IN ORDER TO LOWER HER CONFIDENCE DOWN, TO YOUR LEVEL. (very smooth)........3) ALL OF THE SUDDEN, EVERYWHERE YOU GO, THERE ARE ALPHA MALES TRYING TO COCK BLOCK YOU AND TAKE OVER THE WORLD "WATCH OUT FOR THEM!"........YOU MUST TALK ALOT WHEN YOU OPEN THE SET, SHOWING DHV ETC, BECAUSE IF YOU DON'T, SHE WONT LIKE YOU AND YOU WONT HAVE SHOWN THAT YOU ARE HIGHER VALUE. (WHen indeed, men are high value already, because in fact, women actually want sex more than we do!)..............Fuck the eye contact and body language, thats just the MAIN features that makes a woman INSTANTLY know whether or not you are attractive man, or a creepy weirdo. Making her tally up whether she will open to you or blow you the fuck out within the first what? 3 seconds?...Nah, mystery says we should focus on the words you say, even if it meens acting creepy. and its only 7% of communication. (almost irrelevant)

You guys, I don't know if it was Mystery, or Niel Strauss, but these are things that they are teaching you. Things that they are bringing into your reality.. You didn't start looking for bitchy, mean girls, and other alpha male cock blockers, etc, untill you got into this pick up game apparently. And when I say pick up game, Im not hating on anyone, but the fakers that teach the stuff I noted above. These guys know who they are..