Hello fellas,

My problem is not to know how to behave in the life.Last year when i have no idea about the game, i was trying to be look cool which didnt helps me out.As i heard about the game, i understood Those things(trying being cool etc) are bullshit, instead i have should have an hb which maybe would resolve my problems.And all of these i started doing things like having confidence, being nice-happy, caring for myself etc.. after i had a better life in which i have good relationships with people n have nice times.During this time i got rejections by 2 hbs.It didnt make me bad conversely made me happy of thinking in this way which i get rid of AA.

Somehow i got tired of acting like this and i turned into back who i was, i lost my confidence.And AGAIN i start to care my behaviours, to read Mystery's Handbook.What i like on myself is that i can do crazy think like going beside beatiful girls and tease them, neg them, introduced them.But i am genereally in a mood unwilling, i dont want to do anything(like talking to ppl)And i dont have so much friends who cares me.

Finally, im decided about how to treat.i want to balance my Social Hemostatis, not to be in intimate zone with ppl, and not to be too far from them(ppl cant live without having friends)
Am i right? should i balance my homeostatis or what?

Note: Im a Turkish, sorry if i made a grammer mistake

no give a fuck?

Cool , what you're trying to do is not easy. It can take years and that is fine, because when you finally get it, you won't lose it.

Heck,, it's like a science. There is just so much to it.

So I'd suggest to stick with it. Have you ever been in a fight? I have. I got knocked on my ass once. So what? Stand up, wipe the dust off and get back at it.

Think about your goal.... You'll be able to date the best women in town. Isn't that huge? Well, expect to invest some work into it.

From what you wrote, it seems as if you are on the right track. I think your confidence is a little bruised. I would suggest you get that back first thing.

One last thing,, I think you said somewhere that you don't have many friends. In my opinion, I don't think you'll be able to make friends with the ladies if you are unable to make friends with the guys. The skills are almost the same. So work on that.

Good luck.

Thank u nightrider for posting, ya i recognized tat my confidence is a little bruised and in my opinion first thing tat makes pua pua or ppl strong is confidence.I should keep my confidence in safe, okay.

Actually, after i had learnt something about pu, i started meeting girls in the school(high_school) I gamed them bt my aim was not to have a sex with them, it was juzt to attract them, to increase my value in their eyes and to see if the game is real or fake, if it works or doesnt.As the result it worked better than i excepted-cool.I still talk to them.

At the same time, after a guy who is freshman and 2 years younger than me had come to the school, i became a bench player in my high school basketball team.And tat guy plays instead of me in lineup now, tat happening hurted me so much.Tatz One of the factor tat diminish my confidence n value.

My problems are;
1-)to get jealous of some boys who are great with girls
2-)to be wussy around women(which is like not to be able to pronounce words correctly and it happens %70 times while talking to women)
3-)to be disturbed of ppl who are younger than me n not in intimate zone with me and insults me-example for tat while playing basketball, he says i dont know how to pass and like this) i thought how dare does tat guy tell me these things-cuz he cant tell these things to a guy who has high value


How can i handle these problems? Is there Anyone who is experienced with these stuffs?

Cool it's a long process to get to where you want to go. But the good thing is that you're willing to work on it. In your case,, I really wouldn't even worry about women right now. I'd focus on beefing up my confidence level.

It's such a big area, books could be written about this, that I'd actually suggest you go on google and a search for "improving confidence", "charisma" and "charm". It's a path, it's a process.

Here's some signs that you're a confident person.

Rejection from women doesn't mean shit to you.
Guys picking on you, doesn't mean shit. Bunch of chumps.
You just don't fu$king care about all the boring stuff that gets people down because you know you have your act together. You know you are going in the right direction and people admire you.

In the end, you will supremely like and admire yourself.

Once you've got some real confidence you can start working you game. You can start with men. Tell your coach to piss off. Pick on the young guys you deem fit. Learn to act like a confident guy, get some good friends. Learn how to make friends with guys, same skill set to work with women.

Then you can really start nailing down your routine with the women.

It's a rough road map, but a descent guide. Set yourself up for succes, not failure.

Dude,, you can totally do this! Don't fu$king wait ten years. Do it now!

Good luck!

I appreciate all words you say, thanks again =) and by the way i checked some stuff out about "how to get charisma" i've taken care of smiling-looking confident-speaking loudly and slowly.Eventually it must be worked because my friends who is girl was looking cheerful while having conversation with me.

During the time that you are talking to a hb, should my jokes be cocky or what should it be like?I am asking this because i looked over David DeAngelo's short books.

i supposed nobody in my country knows anything about the game bt last week i found a website who is about the game and that website is someone's who says he learnt the game from the book called the game and joint Sinn's bootcamp.I mean he shares info's about the game so ppl in my country might be learn it.I dont want the game to be known by ppl around me because that means opponent and im the guy who wants to be best in everything he is engaged in(like at basketball, in the game etc) In my opinion The game is secret and its horrible that all ppl know it.Is that bad thing or aint it?

Respects