Hey guys I really need your help on a problem I’ve been having with this girl. So I’ve been chilling with a group of people like ten because that’s the size of the group I hang with and were all around the same age 16 ,17. Now I feel like I showed her interest I mean I text her a lot I asked for her number like I feel like I’ve shown interest. Now she has shown interest to but its in a way where its really hard to pick out. Like she will look at me when I’m talking to other people and then look away and then shell always smile and say hi to me first and all that good stuff. So I know she’s defiantly showing interest my problem is, is that she’s not clear enough with her signs their so hard to read even though I know there. Like I feel when were hanging out she’s waiting for me to go by her and talk to her but I can’t always be the one doing it that’s not how it works. Its at the point now where I don’t know what to do like I feel I should be straight up with her say I think she’s cute and that I feel like I’m getting mixed signals and just try to see where I’m at. Tell me if you guys think that’s a good idea and if you don’t what do you think I should do.

Genesis, it's always these tedious situations that interest me the most because when you don't know what's going on, or getting those dreaded mixed signals, it feels like that damned-if-you-do damned-if-you-don't no matter what. But here is the counsel I offer: I believe you are clear to make a move. Maybe not directly as in "I think you're cute.", but definitely something that conveys interest more than a text or eye contact does, most likely kino of some sort. Touching automatically gets her more comfortable and closer to you (mentally as well as physically). I would suggest gently grabbing her hand and holding it (I would also suggest interlocking fingers just for sake of specifics)...this is the most subtle, yet the most powerful move you can do. It can seem like a huge hurdle, but once you cross that threshold, you're in. This will set the framework that says "I am interested in you as a potential romantic partner." and believe me, she'll know it too. I forgot where I heard it, maybe pickup podcast, but they were saying that all women are intuitive in that they always know when they are being gamed. So my advice to you is that she'll know you're gaming her, so as long as she doesn't protest your actions to progress the interaction towards an intimate level, then continue to escalate. Evidently you are feeling it:
So go with your gut. If the 10 or so of you are hanging out again, this will work best in the evening, when you guys are walking side by side is of course the goal, match her pace (or slow to see if she matches yours), and it's better if you guys are alone or not really close to the rest of the group, grab her hand and keep walking...give her a slight smile (mainly with your eyes if you can, not your full on "cheesing" grin). After this takes place and you arrive at her destination, hug her goodnight. You don't even have to say a word this entire time, because your actions just said it all. This is going to flood her mind with romantic thoughts about you and then you can continue on with the rest of the seduction from there. I call this my "Silent Seduction" and it has worked various times for me before. Once I followed up by texting her "I've decided that you have adorable hands. " and it turned into one of my best relationships I've ever been in. Maybe that will inspire you to make this important move. Good luck!

Hope this helps, and for sure let me know how this one turns out!

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