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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.
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NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.
A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
IT IS AGAINST THIS BOARD'S RULES TO POST THREADS ABOUT JUST ONE GIRL
If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.
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| Chrosiris | PostPosted: Fri Mar 06, 2009 2:08 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:20 am Posts: 49 Location: Springfield, MO, U.S. | | This is one of my sticking points and intuitively I thought it might be one that doesn't get brought up very much. I have either heard or read that it's pretty counter-productive to do all this and get laid once. My goal is to be able to get out of a sexual relationship and still remain friends or even better; to still be looked at as a good guy with social value who a girl might recommend to her friend. What usually happens is that they get hung up, we remain somewhat friends, and then things fizzle out. That would be okay except when I see them in public there is a weird vibe. Either I can tell they still want me or that they are pissed at me and probably not saying good things about me. Not only that but they usually know people in your social circle. That can really mess up your game at a bar/club. Any wisdom? _________________ A belief is a thought you make real.
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| Chrosiris | PostPosted: Sat Mar 14, 2009 7:51 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:20 am Posts: 49 Location: Springfield, MO, U.S. | 30 views and no answers? I know someone must have wanted to say something  _________________ A belief is a thought you make real.
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| Chrosiris | PostPosted: Wed Apr 08, 2009 7:24 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:20 am Posts: 49 Location: Springfield, MO, U.S. | | Still? Seriously??? I'm getting into situations where I need these answers, if anyone has some input please let me know. _________________ A belief is a thought you make real.
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| Chrosiris | PostPosted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 9:49 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Sep 22, 2008 8:20 am Posts: 49 Location: Springfield, MO, U.S. | | Okay, I'm done with this one... I guess I'll just be happy that I have a need for exit strategies. _________________ A belief is a thought you make real.
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| kcdclan | PostPosted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 3:57 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Sun Jun 07, 2009 12:06 pm Posts: 273 Location: Hawaii | | Well that sound crazy.
Just break it off and move on.who cares what she or her friends think.
She is no a pop star that knows every one in your state...
I'm sure there is a way though but i cant help on how... _________________ -----------------------------
BOSS DK
http://facebook.com/kcdclan<--- myspace
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| indianreaper | PostPosted: Thu Jun 11, 2009 9:00 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat May 16, 2009 8:55 pm Posts: 23 | | If you're in a similar situation to me and the pool of girls are gonna know each other, like a college campus, don't just drop her. Her friends are a good source of additional ass and word will get out or she could cockblock you, even to girls she doesn't know if she is around.
I find myself getting rejected always but girls also always still wanna be my friend. It isn't the exact same situation but I think I can adapt for it.
Be sensitive but honest. Tell girls you enjoyed the time together but aren't looking for anything serious or permanent but you still wanna be friends. She will probably assume it is a blow off so you need to follow up. Do something to prove you still wanna be friends like setting up a platonic hang out. Talking online is another great way to get into the LJBF zone and prove you are serious about maintaining a friendship. You can talk slowly and unsexually about afc stuff. There is no eye contact or kino, no unwanted sexual tension online... AIM AFC talk creates awkward pauses but they can be ignored online. Tone down your game and within a short period the comfort will remain but the attraction will be gone. Then you can hope for some good connections with her friends.
Good luck and let me know if you've tried this.
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