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After taking a break from just reading about PU and just going out there and applying iv found that I have 3 big sticking points.
1)Im not really too sure on how to build attraction. Yes i know you need Kino of those of you who are about to suggest it
but i found out you need more than that, So ive been experimenting with the couple theory(if you play the role of her significat other she'll believe that you are) and calling my targets my wife and so on so forth after ive built enough comfort but it seems i need more than that
Best way to deal with this is to not worry about it. If you focus on "building attraction," you put yourself in a very reactive mindset. You'll be walking on eggshells and the girls will know it. They'll respond by either humoring you and being nice, or they'll congruence-test you into oblivion. Stay away from this. If you want to do any of the stuff you listed, do it because it's fun. Not because it'll get anyone attracted to you.
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2)I also have a problem setting up day 2's after the #close. I used to go by the "wait 2 or 3 days before calling" but what ive found is that it actually lowers your chances of setting up a day 2 as they usually forget who you are then you gotta reintroduce yourself to them and it just makes it akward.
I do believe you just answered your own question there. Another thing you can try is to forget numbers and just go for pulls.
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3)Getting a damn F-close. Through my PU journey ive gotten connections, really cool friends.. the works. but what seems like the only thing i HAVENT gotten was a FCLOSE (for those about go gimme a speech about it yes i know already that being a PUA is more than how many women you lay
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I'm not going to give you shit about that. We're all in this because we want to get our fuck on. It becomes a problem when you want to fuck a girl so that you can have another notch on your bedpost or so that you can write a really impressive LR, as opposed to wanting to fuck a girl
because she's hot and you want to fuck her.
How far do you usually escalate? Work on getting makeouts first so you get comfortable with kino. And practice just moving people from one place to another. Whenever you feel like leaving a venue, open a set and try to get them to go with you. Or just move the set you're in.
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I know that not having my own place is what contributes to making it difficult but any advise on how to get over that or advice on any of these three would be very much appreciated
Grrr... yeah, I know about this. Try car extractions. Park in a secluded area, pull to car, make out and fuck there. Actually, just practice pulling to your car. You're going to need to do that anyway if you want to bang a girl at your own place, so you might as well do that.
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