Okay, I'm going to try not to be too specific with my particular situation because I know that this happens to a lot of guys and not just me. So instead, allow me to use this generic scenario:

You meet a group of 3+ girls and start gaming them as a whole (no wing available). Everything's going great, but you really don't know who to target yet. One girl is really giving you the "fuck me" eyes, but she's not the best of the group so you try to ignore her. But accidentally, by ignoring her, you've made her want you more, and soon she has you isolated and you're making out.

So later, you rejoin the group, but now the attitude has changed. You've been "taken", so the other girls of the circle now act cold towards you as if you are off-limits. That's when you think to yourself, "How the fuck did I go from being the hot piece of ass in the group, to being "Suzie's hot piece of ass." Just because one makeout session? I am not a piece of goddamn property to be claimed!

But in a close group of female friends, this is how it works. They don't usually want to get into fights with each other over guys (i.e. Chicks before Dicks), so if one of them shows any significant interest in a guy, the others seem to politely back off.

So the question is, how can I "unclaim" myself without hurting or pissing off "Suzie"? Because I must assume that she will tell her friends everything I say or do, so therefore, if I want to score with them, I better figure out a way to get her to forget about me without devaluing myself in the eyes of the others.

I guess you could also say that I'm asking how to "un-select a target"?
I also realize that there were some mistakes made in this scenario before I got to this point (like failing to select my preferred target and then isolating her, instead of allowing myself to be isolated by a less desirable one.)

Opinions? Ideas?

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Man, that is a good question. I've been in that sitaution before. I'll be watching the responses.

It's a hard situation since girls, when together as a group, are very loyal together. Course on the other hand, in secret they are competive and catty.

I would say you'd really have to come in under the radar and make that connection with the one you really want, right there in front of everyone. That little extra eye cantact from her and your smile can seal the deal. If you got skill, you can do it right in front of everyone.

Then it's just a matter of gettin some basic information, enough little bits that you can figure out how to find her later. WHere she works, classes, hobbies, whatever.

But sealing the deal right there in front of everyone and walking out with her. that's level ten stuff.... Beyond me.