I have a problem that's becoming a very depressing issue. Over the past couple months I've gotten at least 15 numbers from girls by being a confident and funny alpha male.
However, of the ones that I truly wanted to see again, none of them have ever called me back or responded to my phone calls.
Just today, I called this hot girl I met at the bar Saturday night.
SHE programmed her number in my phone and then called her phone so she had it.
When I called her today and said hello, she almost immediately said she had to go and call me back.
I'm not dumb and realize that she most likely wanted to get rid of me, but why in the fvck does this keep happening?
It's almost like I'm afraid to make these calls anymore, because I already know what's going to happen.
I feel like a total loser.

when i first got into this i got alot of phone numbers very easily but most were fakes or flakes

what is happening here is that the girl is sensing that you want to see her again but for her she thinks your interest in her is purley physical

now what i do during my sarge is i find a reason to get together in the future

example , i met a chick on sat nite , ran my game ,dhv'd , qualifyd etc etc and during comfort she mentioned she loved ice cream . i do to but i was careful not to agree with her on the best flavour .
i then told her about this great place i no that does the best ice cream . i talked about some other stuff and before i left i said you know what we should go get that ice cream some time , she replys sure . i then say 'whats the best way to keep in touch with you ' and she offers to give me her number lol

ive done this with ice cream , kayaking , art galleries and all sorts of other stuff and most times the chicks no rightly what your up to but this allows then to justify it to themselves

once i started having a reason to see a girl again other than 'your hot can i see you again ' i found most of my numbers are solid

hope this helps dude and credit to afc adam for helping me with this

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One way i've been told that txting a girl first in some C&F way telling her your going to be calling in 5 mins or so lets her know she's in for a convo rather than some spontaeous call. Like one example is "Hey do you have at least 3 intersting topics to talk about if so call me in 5" Or something along those lines.

Also on what George said on how it ives her something to jusitfy, I think it was style not so sure, but he said giving a woman a reason to justify things will make it easier. For instance if you invite a woman over to your house to see a movie and you end up sleeping with her her justifying reason is she wanted to see a movie (not a very good example i know)

So no credit to me im just transfering hope this helps

u may not have built up enough rapport/comfort with the girls before u got the number.

go here it should help:
http://www.seducenatural.com/articles/4 ... Page1.html

First of all, early in the game, you should be calling ALL the numbers...even if your not interested its a chance to learn and grow.

So many of the girls i know have mentioned more then once about how when they go out they always have so many new numbers that they don't remember who the people are.

If you did not make a great rapport with the girls and they don't remember you, they will think its for a reason.

I met one girl in the line at a gas station, i started teasing her about this plastic hello kitty wallet she had, we where having fun, joking around and ended up getting the number and e-mail.

A few days later, i called her and teased her about the wallet again. She had told me she probably would not have remembered me if i did not mention the wallet again.

When people are enjoying themselves, laughing and having fun...the brain releases chemicals and a memory is made. It can be the same for negative times in life.

When they are enjoying your company, remember what is being said or done at that moment...when you call them back start off the conversation with something relating to it so they remember and those good times flood there memory again.

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It's funny how all you guys talk about rapport, but the thing is, I thought we had good rapport. She's Russian and my parents are from Eastern Europe. We could speak to each other in our own languages and I asked her if she wanted to get some pierogies some time, since that's one of our traditional foods.
It was common ground and I guarantee she doesn't meet guys everyday that can speak Russian to her.
She obliged, took my phone and punched in her number. Now I found out it was a fake because the girl who was supposed to be Anna, called me back and had no idea what I was talking about.
It really doesn't make sense to me.

well since you had such good rapport she must have put in the wrong number...

because a person speaks with another, and even has a couple common intrests by no means is it an indication of rapport, its simply grounds to build upon.

You can be soul mates, but if you cant get the girl to become attracted...then you have nothing. How many times would i go out and have a great conversation with a girl, only to never speak with her again even if i was able to number close is beyond me.

its more then conversation, its attraction and that starts with rapport.

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