Okay this only goes to some, but aside from all the openers and creative topics ive used on a conversation. Sometimes some girls are just really quiet and its hard to have an on going conversation.Especially when you've ran through all the (how is your life) questions.

Tips on a life-long good conversation topics/approach?

i feel you man, i need the same/similar question answered..

I think you just need to boost the mood and take control of the conversation. Maybe make the girls who are being quiet feel that they must participate. like instead of leaving statements open to the whole group where they can pass the buck of answering, thru body language and the way u are talking make one of these girls feel that she is the one who is socially responsible for responding and keeping the convo fun and moving

reward her and neg her more maybe? Shyness is hard to deal with I think you need to make her feel like she should be talking and make sure she is having fun

I'd say have something ready that's funny or wierd hopefully that'll cheer her up and get the ball rolling. If you've been having a good time i don't think it'll be a problem. It also might be time to cut the B/S and dig into her to really find some kind of connection aside from small talk. Or just kiss her. If she's boring you then just say peace and go talk to someone else. Get some bonus social proof by talking to other people/chicks and come back later.

I don't know how old you are, but you probably have 20+ years of experience on this earth.

There's plenty for you to talk about if you would just give yourself permission to do it.

that sounds great actually.Ill actually keep that in mind, like my situation is.She has a sister that's like BFF with her, and that's the worst sometimes, they'd start having like inside talks in the middle of nowhere, and its killed my best conversations a few times!

Ive pulled the "Ill talk to you later" a bit, being that she's quite hard to keep talking to sometimes, and i would like...talk to other chicks when she's there.... I dont know about that though, i think it might draw her away sometimes if im not handling it right, I could sort of assume she has low self-esteem, and i don't even know why, she's HOT. haha i shall find out more when i go over to her house tomorrow!

Haven't posted here for awhile. Well that next day she ended up coming over and had a great time. Since then she has been calling me alot and everything. But because she's pretty busy(I know her well) and im always busy... scheduling hasn't worked out.

But I don't know how long this txting and phone calls could last. Planning to take her out again soon, but don't know where.