If you're coming here wanting to cheat on your girl and hoping to get validation from us, you're not going to get it. Well, at least not from me.

If you're lying, then yes, its wrong.

Now if you can accept that its wrong, and still do it anyway, then no one is stopping you.

Depends. It is all up to you. I would say that it is wrong to hurt other people. Then you could argue that if she never finds out, she doesnt suffer.
Decide for yourself.

How would you feel if she cheated on you? No matter how big of a PUA you are, you're still going to get hurt. There was a video on mystery explaining how he let one of his friends sleep with his girl and how much it hurt him.

Just because you're a PUA, doesn't mean you have to throw away your morals.

Don't be in a relationship if you can't commit to 1 girl. Single would be the best option.. in my honest opinion.

Nothing wrong with cheating my friend if you feel the need to. Just don't get caught. If you do it, and you feel really guilty, don't give in to the temptation to confess.

Just ask yourself "Is it ok to lie?"

only thing I have to say to this is:

If you know your going to do something wrong... Make sure you do it right

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You cant tell him its wrong man. Its his own choice. If he felt truly for her then he wouldnt. But he may not.

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If he doesn't truly feel for her then MAYBE HE SHOULDN'T BE IN THE RELATIONSHIP. Not having feelings for a girl anymore is no excuse for essentially lying to them when the both of you have made a commitment not to.

And yes, lying is wrong. Following your logic, he could replace lying with any other wrong act, such as stealing or murder, and it wouldn't be wrong as long as he was making his own choices.

First of all a "10" is like the perfect woman, and no one is perfect. Hence no 10's exist.

Second cheating on your first girlfriend ever or any girlfriend is just stupid. See thats the beauty of having no dating experiance and then getting into a relationship, you don't have a rep thats tainted, yet. If you cheat and she finds out then you get to add that to your rep. Personally if I were in your situation I would just break up with my g/f and have my fun till i'm ready to be in a steady relationship without that extra temptation.

My two cents.

easiest way I see it is if you sleep with another girl assume your gf is sleeping with other guys, imagine it for a second, if thats cool go for it. I personally wouldn't though it is a whole world of shitstorms waiting to happen and I've always thought if you can't trust the person you are in a relationship who can you trust?

I reckon end it then enjoy single life

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relationship advice 101 here lol, who cares really, lying is for amatures cause its the easy way. Ur the alpha bro, why shld u lie? lol

Not sure how old you are bro- but my advice is to man-up. The poster above me has it right. Why should you need to lie- that's what boys do. Grow a pair- learn how to communicate effectively with your girl and if you can't reach common ground end the relationship or tone if down a few notches. How many respectable men do you know that need to lie to a woman in order to keep sleeping with them? The sooner you learn that the quicker your game will grow.

Is this the first woman you've slept with, or just your first Bf/Gf relationship? Obviously if this is the first woman you've slept with you'll have a fire that needs to be quenched before you're ever ready for something serious.

It is true- procreation is one of man's most basic primal needs and is the underlying motive for almost everything we do... but... and this is a big but...

I think everyone on this thread (including myself) forgot to mention that when we as men show a willingness to leave and end a relationship with a girl- she will almost always stick around! It's the ultimate sign of non-neediness in my opinion. Besides... isn't she the one who should be lucky to be with someone like you? (That's the frame you should have)

It's funny- so many women don't really know how to respond to a guy that doesn't show a "need" for them lol. I guess it's the frame of a woman that is the result of years and years of AFC relationships and pick-ups.

Edit: I did forget to mention that it's not cool to play with peoples emotions and it doesn't seem like your girl did anything to warrant an emotional rollercoaster. I'd definitely take that into consideration before doing anything.

Just my 2c

Dont listen to half these goons....Of course its not ok. Man no offence to most of the guys in here but half of them are on here because they dont know how to handle women and your asking them for relationship advice???? Look at Mystery he might be one of the best PUA's every but he has no idea how to have a proper relationship at all! every women he has loved he has lost because of the PUA game.

If realy like a girl then why be with any one eles? Why do that to her and why risk loosing her? and if you are thinking "I dont care" then you prob shouldent be with her.

Being a PUA doesint make you a relationship expert and having sex with thousands of women doesint make you eather....My advice is no dont cheat and If you dont like her enouph to respect her then you shouldent be with her.

read the game by neil strauss.
i think it's a lesson learned not to cheat or hurt your gf;
thanks to mystery

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