I've been talking to one of my old FB's from my old city and I really put myself in a pickle.

I wrote down everything I want in a girl, and from the most possible non-AFC stand point.. this is her.

There's mutual attraction, flirting, rapport, trust... everything.

1 problem.. I live 1500 miles away.. and I'm starting to catch feelings for her.

I realize I can find another girl like her in my city, but I haven't seen this girl in over 2 years and I really would like to see her.

Is there anyway I could see her again without coming of as a complete AFC (flying down there just to see her) or should I just move on?

Thanks guys.

well if you'd like to save money then I'd suggest just moving on. If not then just call her and say something like we should meet and catch up.

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Don't ever let somebody tell you.. you can't do something. Not even me. All right?

You got a dream.. you gotta protect it. People can't do something themselves, they wanna tell you you can't do it. If you want something, Go get it. Period.

How is she responding to you?

Is she calling you? giving you ioi's in any way?

Dont concentrate so much in what you feel for her but most importantly in how she's demonstrating whatever she might feel for you.

If you guys are going to meet. I would suggest.

1. You guys can meet on a different place.

2. She can come visit you.

Don't just go travel 1500 miles to see her. Without getting any value from her before.

And if you ever go to see her. Make sure is her idea. Let her be the one to tell you that she wants you to be there.


Just my two cents


Good luck bro!

Bluelover