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I realized that I am stuck in A2. What is a good way to allow her to qualify herself for me, for me to then show interest so she knows and move on through comfort to Seduction. I mention seduction so you consciously know my goal. I want her to know my goal in Comfort building somewhere or even earlier.
I also have a naturally C&F personality and vibe, which is why i stick in A2. I've read no more than 3 negs on even HB10s. I think I neg girls more than that...like all the time constantly is more what i do. i'm always c and f.
I can display sexual interest with the right girls. but i think i struggle with a sort of normal back and forth interest that progresses at the correct speed.
thoughts?
Please, stop negging girls so much! I know it might be in your personality but make an effort to stop. I have my own thoughts for why I think guys over neg but that on another post.
You talk about her qualifying to you in A2. We need to back the truck up a minute because that's not where it happens.
A2 - Female to Male Interest. Basically, you use negs or other false disqualifiers and DHV embedded stories to create attraction. You purposely don't get along with your target but you get along with the others in the group. The target wonders why you don't like her. Kino starts at this phase as well.
A3 - Male to Female Attraction. Opposite of A2. Negs stop at this point, you can use disinterested body language like roll offs. You are baiting the girl with your questions to get her to DHV and qualify to you. You can do this with questions such as,
"Beauty is common...everywhere you look you see beautiful people in this club. What do you have going on more for you than your looks?"
Now that we have it cleared up what the steps are we can better address the problem. If you are using Negs and C+F to get her to qualify herself, this doesn't take place and why you are stuck at A2.
Sexual Interest can be put in as soon as you want it. You can take it all kinds of ways to convey that energy. I see you are wanting sex, but are you going for a Single Night Lay or a Lay after a few dates. The reason I ask is there is a big difference in the way you approach each.
SNL - You'd go through A2-A3 like normal have 'just enough' comfort and lots of sexual energy and kino escalation. Focusing mostly on attraction and seduction to go for the SNL.
After a few nights. Continued with the M3 Model as designed for the most part. Introduce sexual chemistry like normal in A2 - A3. Build proper amounts of comfort to get Day 2.
Hope all this helps you out man.
JON
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