Yeaaa so i basically just screwed up and got into the friend zone. I picked up this HB9 and we went on a date saturday, it was a fun time we went out to eat and bowling and we connected very well. I negged her, used DHV stories and there was apparant IOIs..we had alot in common. But i didn't kiss her which i think might of caused too much comfort...well it was the first date and didnt have the right moment to do it

Anyways so we have been talking and today she tells me that she thinks im sexy and liked my personality but felt like we connected on a friendship level. She said she doesn't know why but she wants to hangout more and see if it will grow into something more...we only went on one date.

So how can i fix this? helppp me outt guyss

She said she doesnt know thought i was perfect and that wed be perfect for each other, but wants to see if hanging out more will change her way of thinking idk

wtff

i got like a headache now im confused somebody help mannn

Sounds like it's not so bad man. Maybe you're psyching yourself out? Keep doing what you're doing and kino escalate more next time around. She's saying she still wants to hangout and see where it goes. Might not be in the friends zone yet

Are you using IOIs and IODs to keep things going? Using compliance tests as you go?

-=JeDi=-

I had the same situation almost 2 weeks ago. Took a girl out a few times, didn't kiss on the first date and then the second date went really well. MAKE SURE YOU MAKE A MOVE ON THE SECOND DATE!

If you don't you will either come off unalpha or gay. She will start to think something is wrong with YOU instead of her. Make sure to make a move if you want to get sexual with this girl.

Pulling the trigger is my number one sticking point but I am definitely getting over it. I'm finding you can do it earlier and earlier than you think. Good luck man!

Did she just volunteer the LJBF speech or did you give her some sort of statement of intent which instigated it?

I really don't think you have to necessarily make a move on the second date. It all depends on your opportunity. If you have the opportunity and don't take it, then yeah, it won't be good for you. However, you would be better off not making a move than to force it when its not coming naturally.

As far as comfort building, as long as it is combined with attraction, I really don't think you can have too much of it. You just have to have faith that if you stir the pot correctly for long enough, you'll get what you want.

Do what you know to be correct and have faith that it is secretly working even if you're not seeing instant results. It took a week for me, but I recently plowed through the LJBF speech after about a week of attraction and comfort building, but I didn't see real indicators of progress until almost the very end.