I guess this topic could have gone either on this board or sticking points, but I just chose this one.

So, let me give you guys my latest example...

--About mid October I went out with a friend to a social gathering, someone's BDAY. I met a ton of people that night, including this particular girl. Let's name her Linda. Now Linda is a tall, very good looking girl and I was surprised no one was talking to her. She was with her cousin. Basically I ran solid game on Linda, taking note of her cousin being in the set. She gave me her phone # and invited me out to go clubbing with her, her sister, and her cousin. I went clubbing with them the next night and it was fun.
--The following week, I was spending a lot of time with her on campus, I was studying for a test and she was studying for her classes. She would always have lunch with me, and drive me to my car at the end of the day. Throughout this week, I was kino escalating and small gaming. The weekend came and I invited her out to a house party. I told her to come to my house and I would drive. The whole time at the party I was kino escalating a lot and small talking with her. I finally got my kiss from her at the party and a small make out at the end of the night.
--The next week was her coming over to my house about every other day, hanging out, etc... So she came over a total of 3 times, where the 2nd time I escalated to sexual, and she said not yet. The third time I escalated again to sex, she accepted but told me she was on the rag.
--Basically I have not had sex with her to this date.
The following 10 days I was out of town in northern California for dental shadowing and thanksgiving with family. I have been back since black friday. Since then, she flaked/ducked me (I called her to come to this bar, no answer all day nor response, but when I went to the bar I saw her car, I avoided confrontation), minimal text responses, and she has not called me.


I think in this example, either my time out of town affected her interest, or since my energy level was pretty high when I was gaming, I have not matched that level of attraction to myself since.

I would like some advice, both direct and use of examples(personal examples preferable), on how to start a relationship after gaming a girl. Like tell me what I should do and give me examples of what you guys did. I don't want my example picked apart, but feel free to reference it minimally.

I DO NOT want advice within the realm of gaming(A, C, or S).


This has happened to me before but I just wanted to give you guys an example. I live in Las Vegas, its very easy to get a quick weekend fling, but jesus tap dancing christ, the local girls here are wack. They have a small social variance so they lose interest quick and aren't open to new things.