I seem to mess this one up every time. Okay so, I have girls as friends for a while, and they begin to realize how fantastical I am, and develop strong emotions for me. This seems to happen ALL the time!! To most people I come across as a dick, but when they take the time to actually KNOW me, they see how warm and unique I am. I have a strong sense of social dynamics, and of personal interaction.

Okay now that i've shown my not-so-humble ego to ya'll, I have a question. I have met this new girl, and she is totally falling for me. Every time she learns something new about my personality/character/interests/hobbies/etc, I can see the excitement continuing to grow on her face; her smile keeps getting bigger and brighter. Like most of the girls in the past, I don't really FEEL like she is relationship material, however, I tend to get involved anyway. It is hard for me to "just be friends." Again, it's more of me opening up to them and them falling for me, and me with the ultimate decision as far as where it goes. This has been detrimental to relationships in the past I've had. I really do want a strong base of Girl Friends, not girlfriends. But at the same time I keep taking the cookies from the cookie jar!! They aren't even locked up, they are out in the open, and i love those chocolatey chips, if you get my metaphor.

Someone please guide me in my troubles!

Don't DHV, just build comfort.
MOST important, DON'T KINO!

You'll make it into the friends zone easy.