So this girl on another floor of my dorm is pretty cute. I've hung out with her a bit, danced with her at a few parties, and it seemed to be going pretty well. I was hanging out in her room the other day, and right before I left I asked her out to coffee. She said she was busy - but that next week might work out. Anyway, she immediately sent a text to one of her friends (one of my friends as well) saying that she thinks she just got asked out/didn't know what to do so she just said she was busy. Regardless, not a good sign. Do I bring it up again? or just scrap it and move on....and either way, what went wrong in the first place?

Sounds like you caught her off guard or she never been asked out before. I would mention to your friend that you have in common that you tried to ask this girl out and she said "no". But you are going to try again. I know this may come of as AFC, but your friend I bet will inform the girl that you plan on asking her out again and will tell her what to do next time, which is most probably say yes to you.

I wouldn't take it as good or bad, it sounds like she's just insecure?

Is she pretty reserved?

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Fuck That!

These Girls know exactly what their doing. Especially after tonight when I used a HB8 to pick up a HB10 at a local club. I called the 8 out and got a dinner date and some drinks out of her. Than I brought her to the club where the HB10 works and called her out after she looked at the HB8 I as with. After watching all the lines and other BS on here once you get in the friend zone you call her out and have a nice big "neg" to get her out of her comfort level.

Call Her Out and get on that!!

After tonight I realized its all about the fact that your a ten and she has to prove herself to you!

Get on it

Mike

she said she was busy and maybe next week right? well go for next week.
ask her again and if she says she's busy, just be like "well, you could just say no, you don't have to make up an excuse, i can handle rejectiion"
here she'll either say "no its not that at all" and she'll give in, or she'll say "ok then, no" in which case she's probably not worth working anyway

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HB: Sorry I'm busy
PUA: That's just too bad then

Nice! man.
I like this one.

i hate when newbies create an account just to ask a question, a few people answer it, and we never hear back from the newbie. total waste of time. i'd like to know what ended up happening with the girl. did the suggestios work. eh, whatever.

HB: 'Im busy.'
PUA: 'Hey it's too early in our relationship to be blowing me off!'
This conveys a relationship intent and that you ain't gonna take
her shit or her shit tests! Plus, it's a prescripted neg. So If she
laughs just hit the DHV spikes. She sees you as an AFC or friend
material you need to alpha it up.
Remember, once you get her attention you have be keep it.

I suggest here that you ask her opinion about a girl 'similar' to her
and ask her what your friend should do. Once she spills the beans
ask her: "Would this work on you?" If yes, then ask what she likes
most about men/father (Every little girl is looking for a guy like daddy.)
Then get busy and start acting like it. You need her to see you as The AMOG. She needs to see you with other girls, even if just friends. Other women want what other women have. Its childish but it works. Get her ass into the Compliance/Punishment/Reward combo ASAP! It works coz the more shes willing to do the more interested she is. Then, you reward her with more attention when she is nice and punish with less when not. You MUST be willing to walk away. A PUA MUST ALWAYS BE THE EXCEPTION TO THE RULES! May The GAME be with you.

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If you're worried about her saying no, then try inviting her to a social gathering instead. Social gatherings such as parties are super low pressure environments for the two of you, and potentially gives you more opportunities to build attraction and even close than a simple date would. Assuming it goes well, its not hard to jump from a social gathering to going on an actual date.