Firstly, I am new here. However, I am not new to the game. Few months back I was well into it, had a few girls on the go, regular lays etc. Then I met one I really liked. For a while, I wasnt too keen on the fact on settling with her as I was loving the single life once again.

Anyway, she pushed "exclusive" and we went steady for a bit. I started liking her and her to me. One Thur she told me she "really really really liked me." I thought she was going to drop the L word on me and told her to sober up... anyway, with her the Fri, Sat and Sun and she mentioned to me on Sun about going on a skiiing holiday with her (as her and her mates were going) ..... then on Wed she dumps me saying "this isn't working out" .... am like WTF? This was about 2 weeks ago. She was texting me for a bit after until I told her I needed space and couldnt just be friends straight away.

Now, I do not she is just out of a 2.5 year r/ship with some guy and she has been single for 6 months before meeting me. She had told me she had loved being single again, having fun with all her mates etc.

I know that I just need to break all contact and I basically have, but I bumped into her last night and she was very friendly with me. No IOA tho....

Anyway, any advice?

give her a call, take her out, see if you can strike up the flame again. if not, forget about her and move on

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Anyone can give up. It's the easiest thing in the world. To hold it together as you walk through this hell, when everyone else would understand if you fell to your demons, that is true strength.

Well I would just give her some space for a little. She said it wasn't working out and she liked being single; if you immediately text her constantly and try really hard to get her back, you'll come across as way to needy and that will just turn her off. Do you have any mutual friends at all? Dp you know where she likes to hang out / party? If you can answer yes to either of those, you have a chance to "run into her" at a later date, but for now, I would talk to other women.

You have to set your outcome, as with all one-itis'.

You don't have to resort to classic PU "she-is-my-one-itis-therefore-i-must-sarge-a-million-other-girls-and-forget-about-her".

Best thing to do is to set the outcome, then work towards it with a carefree attitude. The moment you start caring too much you're likely to lose the game. I know because I'm experiencing a tough one-itis at the moment in my game.

If your outcome is serious/exclusive LTR, then I don't think you'll get it, doubt she wants that. Best thing to do is to make a fuck buddy out of her. That's probably what she wants anyway. I hope you've bedded her, if not that may be one place you've screwed up. There is a time for seduction in every pick up and if you don't hit it the relationship can get screwed or friendzoned.[/i]