somehow i feel that i need to include them. i think im too polite and let them take over the convo.

instead, would it be more appropriate to let them talk but continue what im saying on the side to mytarget if its time to separate her anyway?

i guess its usually when guys come. for whatever reason im really attracted to black girls and whenever three or four big black guys from detroit come over to my set i kinda feel like i have to acknolege them..

i dunno

im white and from an upper middleclass suburb and i really dont want to make anyone mad at me

sometimes guys ask me where im from and i tell them. and then they say "im from 7 mile" or "im from joy road" and im like.. oh cool iv driven by that area before and they look at me with this blank stare that makes me kinda a little questioning what they might be thinking...

Lol. Don't be such a freak about where you're from. In fact, you're doing the total opposite of being the exception to the rule. Next time they ask you just reframe it and say something like,

"I don't give out my address on the first conversation" (presuppose more convo)

"Omg, I've only known you for 2 mins and you're already trying to find out where I live?? You perv!"

"Easy tiger. (Addressing the group) - is she always this forward? Next thing you know she'll be trying to get in my pants! Man I swear girls are such pervs...(enter boy/girl perv routine).

Etc.

To your original question, OF COURSE ACKNOWLEDGE THEM. Unless it would be seen as a DLV in any way. If your target is a lone wolf and a black guy enters the set, IMMEDIATELY start gaming/amogging him. Ignore the girl. Win her friends and you win her. Carry on gaming her and the guy will do all he can to blow you out.

Unless you can isolate, then generally start gaming the others who enter the set, get to know them, amog them, and THEN come back to the girl.

You'll find this is the best way.

uh well maybe i need to explain more. these guys r seriously from detroit. and the girls i was talking to are from ghetto ghetto detroit. and uh i think iv really extended my sexual reach into the african american community at this college and everyone knows it.

i mean i have black guy friends today i invited 7 or 8 over to my room to chill n we are gunna box next week.

but uh yeah ill try to do what u say it makes sense. i thought he was just asking me where i was from at first, then i realized it was a like status ownership thing with the girls

its all good i havent been shanked yet (cross ur fingers)

What are you doing so far from home?