Everyone likes to think that they are good at sex. I think i am and i enjoy it. Sex is great. The thing is i know how to please my own cock when im having sex - but i dont have a clue what to do with hers to make her feel good. A sticking point for me is when i go down on a girl. Im just no good at it. Ive even been told that im awful at it. Today i identified a few solutions to this problem and snatched myself a FBuddy. Now she can teach me which is good - but id prefer have some real technique sharing from you guys. What on earth do i do?

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Try spelling out the alphabet with your tongue on her clit, that way you hit every angle.

yeah i use alphabet sometimes.

I think the key is more about how not to give her head.

You want her to be so desperate to put that tounge on her she is literally trying to make you like kissing right next to pubic mound oround thighs i even kiss all round the area then about to kiss her clit then breath on her then move somewhere else after a while they are so horny and then you can use your left hand to pull away the skin on that side and same with right and alphabet some big some small letters. but make sure its not all bout the clit her outer labia if you caress lick slowly inside there it helps to relax her. Ive actually asked girls if this is relaxing and they always say yes so especially good if they are virgin worried for some reason or another if they are relaxed they are wetter. I often slip a digit in and stroke her G-spot at the same time as licking her clit BUT HOLD ON TIGHT!!!

anyways thats all i got im sure i can improve to

Yeah I find that most of the enjoyment is set before you even go for her crotch...it's all in the foreplay and making her want it more and more...

lick, kiss caress everywhere except where she wants you most. Then once you get in, vary your rhythm. One finger in, not far at first (then escalate) and your mouth on her clit. I find the clit is the best when giving oral. I stopped licking the actual opening or cervix where your finger/cock goes becuase for one it's disgusting, and for two it doesn't get that much physical pleasure in my experience.

Once you're licking clit and you can see she's escalating by her body/noises she makes etc, DON'T CHANGE TACK. Just keep your rhythm going so she can adjust to it and go with it. No more alphabet, just keep doing your thing. There is more threads on this site on closing etc that gives further description about stacking orgasms etc but I hope this helps for basics.

Identify where her clit is (so many guys have trouble finding it.) Some women have bigger clits, lips, holes, whatever, they are all different. This is traditionally what I find works great... but remember, every woman likes something different... you generally just have to get down there and put some time and effort in and figure out what works best.

I start with my mouth about a foot above her vag. I get a big ball of saliva in my mouth and then let it dangle from my lips as i lower the saliva on her clit. It helps get her warmed up. Much more wet. Kiss every where but her vag. Then kiss her pussy lips, suck on them as well... then lick the clit, wrap your lips around it and suck on it. Then flick your tongue on her clit while it is in your mouth. This rushes blood to her clit, and makes it more sensitive while you flick it with your tongue.

Rub your tongue up and down her clit and all around it. Kiss her legs whatever.. the longer you avoid her vag the more build up for her and then the more intense her orgasm.

It is also good to put an ice cube or an altoid in your mouth while you are going down on her. It helps add intensitiy. Just a small ice cube that freezes your tongue. One of my ex's went nuts for that. What I would do is build up ice cold saliva and do like i said before... Basically drool ice cold saliva all over her clit and vag...

good luck bro

CK

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lovin this advice man.

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No prob. Remember, you have to be very gentle. To help warm her up while your are making out, make a "C" with your index finger and your thumb. Insert your finger in her vag. Then rock the "C" up and down. Your finger ends up rubbing on her G spot while your thumb rubs on her clit. She will be soooo wet once you start to go down there. Get down there for about 20 minutes and she will do whatever you want.

One other thing to help is to put your index and middle finger in between her pussy lips. then spread the apart like you are making the peace sign. This will help give you a better angle on her clit.

Trim your fingernails as well. The dirt under your fingernails can cause infections. Keep your hands really clean. And never go down on a girl if you have a cold sore.

CK

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you mean like in and out? rock?

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Thing of the "C" like its a rocking chair. Your thumb and the skin between your finger will rub all the sensitive spots on her vag. Thats just to help warm up. Concentrate on the other stuff and you will be fine. It just takes time.

Also, if your girl turns out to be a freak, try using a vibrating toothbrush with really soft bristles on her clit.... I Just hope she doesn't crush your head while her legs shake out of control. Ha!

CK

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lmfao

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Haha I love the toothbrush one.. but I've actually heard chicks dig it.. if that point in the conversation ever comes up haha

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Yeah, one thing to remember is too keep her wet, ESPECIALLY the clit...if you're using fingers. It's so sensitive and she will not have a good experience at all if it is drying up. As for the inside of her vagina, that depends solely on her horniness, which depends upon you.

Well thanks guys. That was some sweet ass advice. Especially CK.
Ill let you know how she takes to it.

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