My wing and I did one of our 1st ever daytime approaches on these two girls, and number closed them a very long time ago (3 months). We were both on form and did everything quite well except 4 one major flaw. Met in the street took them to a bar, stayed there till evening. Dhved negged built comfort escalted kino, but DIDNT K-CLOSE.

They're from another city and we told them that we were planning a road trip (which was true) and we'd stop by and see them. Over the course of the next week, this girl texted me an insane amount of times. Very sexual. Then for reasons which I wont go into, we couldnt go on the road trip and we flipped it so they'd be coming to see us.

From then more enormas amounts of texts (up 2 50 times a day lol), then she cant come on the weekend she said cos the train lines closed (also true)

I try to persuade her to rescedule but she tries to make me come and see her instead, which im not gonna do, its fucking expensive and a majorly afc thing to do.

So I texted her to say something to the effect of, nice to meet u but this isnt gonna happen etc.

She replied telling me how im a strange guy, and not to worry id be seeing her again.

I blank her for a few weeks. Then she offers to come to see me again.

All this time she refuses to talk to me on the phone, which i neg and tease her about, but it makes no difference.

Now ive suggested a day and she's said Oh i mite be going somewhere else that weekend, ill check. Since then no mension of it.

Seems she's gonna start being long again. Like I say we met eons ago. I feel like a muppet 4 still texting a girl i never k-closed. Its not a oneitis thing, im gaming other chicks. The only reason I continue is cos if she came it would be pretty much garenteed sex.

How can I get her to stop fucking about and come and see me. I think she genuinely wants to, maybe shes a bit scared to travel across england to see a semi stranger. Plus whats up with the no phoning thing? What a weirdo.

Anyway, that was a bit of a long read, sorry bout that. But any help would be apprisiated.

The real reason you should feel like a muppet is cos you're still wasting your time with a girl you met months ago and haven't seen since, plus the fact that she lives so far away.

The best, and only advice I will give you, is to move on. You said this was one of your first approaches and it happened 3 months ago... the fact that you're still trying with this one girl is bemusing to say the least. You mentioned how you'd definately have sex if you met her again, which tells me that you either aren't getting much elsewhere or she's the hottest shit in all of england. What else have you been doing since you first met her?

I've been doing ok since i met her, ive had a quite a few success stories. But im essentially still a beginner, ive f closed twice, which is better than nothing, but still not enough.

I know what ur saying is right, she isnt the hottest thing in england lol, she s an 8. And i should've left it by now. Its just that ive gone back 4 my last year of uni and im trying to concentrate on work. Thus have little time to be working on game. Even if i had all the time in the world, im not at a stage yet where im successful eonugh to close whenever i need. I keep texting her cos it would be convinient to have her come see me, plus she doesnt mind if i ignore her when im busy.

Get her facebook or email which is cheaper and will let her know more about you. Throw in some comfort material so she knows you're not a perv, DHV, then just give an ultimatum. Come or end the relationship. If the latter just forget about her.