Ok, I'll try to make this as short as possible.

Met a girl on the internet - chatted online periodically for a few weeks.

Met up Wednesday for a coffee, and then a quick meal (over about 2-3 hours). It went very well - plenty of kino, good conversation, no awkward silences.

Text her after saying had fun nice to meet you etc. I also said 'feel free to come visit me in my dreams'. Is this good or not? I hate telephones

She messages back IMMEDIATELY saying nice to meet you etc. Doesn't mention dream thing...

I msg her next day (Thurs) saying I'm dissapionted you didn't visit me (I went back to the dream thing ), so I'm going to come visit you, and are you free on Sat.

She messages back the next day (Fri) saying 'did you find me?'. She says she available on Sat from 4-6.30 (WTF?!?), BUT adds a winky emoticon. Does this mean anything?

I replied a few hours ago saying 'yeah I found you but I can't tell you what happened. you were a bit of an embarassment'. I refused her invitation saying it's not convenient. I did this coz I didn't know what to make of her 'I'm only available between 4-6.30' msg. WTF does this mean?

PS - I only have her cell phone email so don't say just call her. I write these things coz things often come to mind that I've missed while writing. For example, perhaps it'd be a good idea to wait a day or two to give her a chance to reply and then get her number and just call her, coz I'm getting the feeling I'm losing this one...

Feel free to come and visit you in your dreams? sounds like an over obvious pick up line. cheesy. whats up with the usual - ill let you call me sometime in the next two days???
V1V

My guess is that she was flirting by having there.
I would say its of either two things. One she has a busy life and that is the only time she can see you. Or she is seeing if you are going to "chase" her. Depending on what she does for a living, I would more than likely go with the first situation. Because you only met her once and I do hope she has a life of her own. To expect her to be open with her schedule so early on is a bit much I say.
She has a blackberry from work?
I say get her number now instead of waiting until she responds to ask for it. Yes it may seem you are "chasing" her, but if you do it in an aggressive way I don't think it will come off that you are chasing her.

Feel free to come and visit you in your dreams? sounds like an over obvious pick up line. cheesy. whats up with the usual - ill let you call me sometime in the next two days???
V1V [/quote]

I disagree. It's not cheesy. If you ahve a strong frame you can joke about it, however you should not FORCE her into this joke. Mention it, and if she ignores it... forget it.

I'm tired, fucked up and a bit affected by alcohol SPAM, but get this: I suggest you to keep on gaming her, as this never happened. Say all the dates you can't meet her, and then give her one you can.

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