Ok, so my main concern is that I always run into problems with getting a Day 2. I am in college so logistically, unless I am at a fraternity party I cannot escalate in the first opportunity. This makes getting a day 2 necessary for me. Could someone provide any suggestions? Also, I have been talking to this girl for a bit and I messaged her saying something like, "We should get coffee. I wanna get to know u better, but if nothing else, we can just be friends." She responds asking me what I mean. I dont really know what to say now......

You are showing too much intrest with that initial text.

Instead you should have wrote " Im going to get Starbucks after class. Meet up with me @ 430, I have something I want to tell you. "

Ok, now to work on your current situation.

Say something like " You just have this interesting energy about you. See you at 430. =)"

Keeps it simple and Keeps her intrigued.

CK

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@karma10,

if i were you i'd reply to her text "what do you mean"...

it means i think you are attractive and you also seem to have an interesting personality and that's why i want to spend more time with you to find out
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be direct, why waste time?

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..it was the "if nothing else, we can just be friends" part that really threw you off. That is seriously AFC, throw it out of your vocabulary forever. Right now.

You dont want to be "just friends" and she knows it. So you get the "wtf do you mean" question, when its obvious to a six year old you are trying to hook up with her.

At this point, its damage control. Going direct is probably the best advice, theres not much else you can do as you've pretty much given up your whole position already. Just whatever you do, dont make it sound too clingy or needy. You think she's fun, smart, sexy. You are interested in getting to know her more, having a good time together. You are NOT trying to be her boyfriend yet, so dont even hint at anything relationship-wise. Its too much, too soon, you will get massively rejected. So in that respect, tone down any of the direct lines, dont sound too connected to your emotions blah blah. Just sound like a cool guy who's interested.