Hi guys,

I've been having a problem with one girl in particular. I realize that it probably makes sense just to let this one go but for some reason this has been really bothering me and I would like to figure out how to deal with this situation.

I've been working this semester with this girl at my on-campus job. From the start she seemed interested and found a way to ask for my phone number. She facebooked me and even immediatley wrote a message on my wall starting with "so" which I've read is an IOI. I thought it was on and have been running game on her and have found ways to demonstrate higher value. I've kept conversation interesting and have slipped in kino but from what I hear there is another guy who she has been off and on with for the past two years who also goes to my same school. Apparently they were seen holding hands and being flirty a few weeks ago.

I feel like there is attraction between us but she is scared to let me get too close to her because she still has interest in this other guy. Luckily I will be attending her sororities formal with another girl (just as friends no strings attached) very soon. I think she is going with this guy. What would you all suggest for taking this attraction to the next level? I have a feeling that most people on this forum will say cut her and don't risk oneitis but this is really gnawing at me. Any thoughts?

Why would anyone tell you to move on?

Nothing has happened between y'all yet. You may have escalated the kino, but does she know you are into her as more than just a friend/co worker? i think by playing a jealousy plot-line at the formal you will be golden. Understand that if you do not make a move and your intentions clear that you will be stuck in the friend zone.

By her asking for your number, she was being more forward than women generally are. My guess is that she was looking for that male attention she was not receiving from her man at the time.

More kino, isolate her at a time and place, like the formal, where it can be just the two of you and work on getting out of the "friend" status.

CK

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Will do, thanks