first off i appologize if this is in the wrong forum or you have seen a billion of thse threads however im new. have done research and well im sorta stuck.

I barly started venturing into the PUA world and have opened sets and got them to talk and was just getting my feet wet when i met a girl i actually saw in a different way.

she pretty much gots the qualities of a girl i find very attractive (physical and personality wise)

well the thing is ive hung out with her twice so far. my friends are her friends and ill call us friends too.

first night only real kino was like a hug n crap.

ive been trying to DHV by telling stories of my adventures and she seemed to be interested and even said how she wanted to do some of the things i did.

later that night i went to guage myself and when she asked to drive my car(cause its stick) i asked what i get if i let her. "haha nothing....how bout my friendship" of course saying i have enough friends she finally playflully tugged me from the driver seat.

at that point im pretty sure i didnt have enough attraction. afterwards i said "you know this brings us closer together." she responds "i know"

later she takes me n some friends to a coffee shop to meet an obstacle.

thing is she gots some crush on some guy but its one sided on her part.
other thing is i know some one else is trying to game her too.(not to concerned bout him however)

problem is how do i break through the obstacle she has a thing for. i have an idea to "destroy" the one sided crush but i believe its too early to try it.

i know this is such a general question. and well this is pretty much the WHOLE situation.

thanks guys.

***Update***
well turn for the worst. today i found out that some how it got out and she knows i dig her. she said she was sorta weirded out since i barly know her.

all i can think of is just continue and pretend like nothing happend and disqualify myself.

There are some NLP shit which are ideal for this situation. Talking to her try to find out what are the things that attract her towards this guy and then talk her into state where she`ll find YOU as the guy who conveys all that stuff she searches for.

For example, if she says he likes his good developed body, subconciuosly she seeks for the strong alpha male who can protect her. Then tell her a story (even if it didn`t happen) when you saw a guy hitting his girlfriend and how you totaly freaked out and beat the shit out of that guy, tell her how only cowards beat women.

Or, if she says he has a good car, deep inside she is seeking for financial security which he can give her. Then you can tell her how you are doing well with your college which will provide you high income job, or how u invested some money into investment funds or whatever.

I hope you got the point. This will result with her seeing in you all the positive things which she is looking for in guy and since you are there and that obstacle guy is not, you will be in game my friend.


Anyway, that is NLP. My way would probably be to outalpha the guy, but thats just the way I am!

Good luck!

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interesting interesting.

but lets say i start asking her how shes attracted to this guy. how would i start displaying my DHV through stories n what not without looking like im trying to impress her.

hang out with her and this guy. AMOG. be the god of your domain, which includes the area they are in. girls are attracted to dominance, as long as its humble.

I like all those theories but to highten the attraction more, I think(the community also) you should calculatingly give her space;appearing to be too busy and not that interested. In fact, that's exactly what the obstacle guy may be doing 'cause it's one-itis on her part for a guy who isnt showing that much interest.

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