i met this girl through a girl friend i know because i got a stain in my favorite shirt and was looking for bleach. the girl was really hot and met her at a party when she dipped her fingers in the beer and flicked in my face but thats a different story. so anyway, i call this girl a few times, looking for bleach to find a few days later, she texts me and says she lost it. later on, text her back and say
"found sumone else, don't need ya thx tho"
and she texts me back with
"rejection."
I did not know how to deal with tis so i just said back
"u brought it on urself, needed it days ago" idk what i was thinking and then i texted
"if you think of sumthin i need i will happily take it from ya buti think i'm cool"

this girl is playing me and i am trying to play her. should i walk away? is there potential here to get laid? If so how should i deal with it? thoughts would be much appreciated. -Rye

the beauty of msging each other is you can wait and think of a good reply, id try teasing her, with something like


hey i do need the bleach afterall

then when she txts you back

say just kidding lol

and take it from there, be playful, be cocky and funny

skittlepimp

the you can txt her


lol......rejected again....lol...

OK so the chick approached me this morning outside my class, coincedientially, with smile on her face and said she had bleach for me to get my stain outta the shirt, she said previously in the text message "i lost my bleach" and then said "rejection" as a text alone, she said she said that because she DIDN'T know what to say when I said "i DIDN'T need her anymore" (look at my first post for clarification), in that text message. that is a GOOD thing, i think.. anyway i told her this morning i was kidding when i said i didn't need her anymore and i said i would call her later, and i told her to pick up because she doesn't pick up often. how should i play this? this is my FIRST real time to making it a close in college, i already have her number, and i was thinking i would say like "you are very sexy, and out of the 4 people i've met with bleach, you are the 4th sexiest, i am going to call you number 4" but where do i go from that? i am in college, in a single dorm trying to succeed with my first college bang, how do i transition? keep playing games? wait for her to ask me about my plans? and what do i do AFTER i use the bleach and do not need her anymore? i need help man, tips would be much appreciated. -Rye

PLEASE note that this is the same girl that splashed beer in my face

bitchy-girl-what-to-do-vt6543.html

read, analyze, and hit me up with any advice you have in closing! much appreciation.. -Rye

i dont know if i would outright tell her that shes sexy, she knows she is and probably gets told that shit all the time. i would act like her beauty didnt phase me, cause then she ll start thinking wtf? this guy isnt attracted to me. this in turn will make her want to qualify herself to you.

remember that apparently by you NOT needing her, is what has attracted her to you.

keep it playful, throwing in negs when you can, also try not to develope "one itis" im in college too and im constantly looking for prospects, you should too

this is my take on things, however im just learning the rules of the game so i guess my best advice is to get other playas perspectives as well.

good luck
skittlepimp

You're dangerously close to coming off needy. Needy is bad. Telling her to pick up when you call...needy. Telling her she's the hotest thing you have "going" = try hard.

The craziest part about this sale is, unlike a widget sale, you can't tell your buyer that you want the business. You can't be persistent. Women are repulsed by that. Number one rule of pick-up: Women only want what they can't have. If she realizes that she can have you, she won't want you.

My advice is, keep working other targets...that's you're best bet since you're faced with seeing her on a regular basis in class. You've shown PLENTY of interest to this point. Put her through the 7 day sweat. If she's that important, skip class and make sure you don't see her for the next 7 days. Don't contact her. Make her sit and wonder why you aren't chasing her. That's the mistake most guys make. They chase too hard, and this repels women. She will start doubting her self with each day that passes and you don't text or call. Maintain radio silence for a week and she will likely text you by day 5. She has the perfect opener: Why aren't you going to class? If she text's you, you have no choice but to kiss close this girl before you return to class. That is critical or you WILL end up in the friend zone. If she texts, I'd wait a day and then call her. Don't return the text...call her. But when you call, make sure you talk for at least 10 minutes, make her laugh at least once, and don't allow the conversation to lull. By skipping class, you have the perfect opener for a date...can you swing by room and help me get caught up on the studies? If she agrees, when she comes over, DO NOT get your books out. You used studying as a reason to get her over, but you ARE NOT going to actually study. Change gears and play your favorite music CD's or something. Books on a study date are a one-way ticket to friendsville. Kino and Kissing...critical since you have to see her again in class on a regular basis.

If she doesn't text you within a week, probably game over, you lose. If this happens, the next time you go to class, arrive late and ensure that you don't sit by her. After class, get out of the room before she does, park your back against the wall of the hallway and make eye contact with her as she exits the room and smile at her. If she makes eye contact with you when she comes out of class, hold the eye contact and she should look away first. Then, just waive her over to you with your hand and hope for the best. Talk about anything for 5 minutes and ask for the study date. Seeing her on a regular basis in class...gonna be hard to stay out of the friend zone on this. Your only hope is to get your toungue down her throat before you "casually" see each other in a class setting again.

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Later,
Alphagame

I am sorry for being confusing, but i do not have class for her, sorry for wasting your time dude i will be more clear in the future. so anyway, i saw her coming out of my class when she was walking to hers. i see her occianially beause i'm at a 10,000+ university so you see the same people sometimes between classes. anyway, she calls me "Stain" because of my problem with my "favorite shirt" i tell her. i wanted to use the "u are sexy, blah blah number 4" "you call me stain, iam going to call you number 4" but what do you guys think? i definitely have acted a little needy and that is aone of my weaknesses, i hate waiting a few days for a bang even though it may make me or break me, i take my chances and lose more so than win. so at this point in time, i did tell her to "pick up her phone this time" which i now realize was a bad idea but i definitely think i should not call her at all until she contacts me beause i said I would call her and when i don't, she will start thinking. good? bad? yeah so i am in no classes with this girl, i just see her maybe once a few days, or once a week around, and sheapproaches me with a smile and calls me "stain". actually at the party and in the afternoons during classes she was a HB9 and when i saw her this morning she was a HB7, is there ammunition here to use from this? turning it into a neg or something? and where should i go from here? I only have an idea... tips appreciated
-Rye

and also she is not THAT important, it would just be a nice kick off of the year for me. i work game everywhere i see now anyone and everyone. i sit next to groups of girls at lunch or dinner and work on my approaches. i approach girls after class and work on them as well, i try out negs push pull whatever i can think of, then right when i get back to my dorm i critque myself on what i did wrong and what i could have done to be more effective.

just grab the bleech use it XD then call her asking her to come get it, get my point?


SF

wouldn't calling her be needy? what is XD? it's either calling her, grabbing it, telling her to ocme get it back, or just not calling for a week. what do you guys think? tips appreciated -Rye

I say, since you told her to pickup this time, don't call her. Don't text her. Make her sit there and wonder if you're into her or not. Make her scond guess herself. If she's a 9, I seriously think you totally blow your chances with a phone call right away. Women pay attention to the words we say a LOT more than we do. I am just now figuring this out, but they do pay attention to what we say. If you told her to pick up this time, she definitely picked that up as a clue that you want her more than she wants you.

If she texts you within a week, you will feel like a king. In case she doesn't, ALWAYS try to keep the queue as full as possible so you don't get depressed over her. As long as you have another girl around to occupy your attention, it's a LOT easier.

Keep sarging and good luck with the 9. Every 9+ I've ever dealt with completely broke my heart...they are dangerous because they're hit on ALL the time. Read this, and you'll understand why:

http://www.dallaspua.com/articles/the_t ... _women.htm

I didn't completely believe that article, and I still don't believe the part about the guy being able to seduce ANY woman he sets his mind to, but I do believe the part about women following their emotional desires and "rationalizing" it later. This is why I don't even game 9+ women. They will eat your heart right in front of your face while it's still beating without an ounce of remorse or feeling.

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Alphagame

hey dude. it's simply all about the delivery. she came up to you and said she had the bleach for you. that means she's definitely interested unless she's just always a smartass. when you call or text her tell her something along the lines of "I still need the bleach and if you could help get the stain out that would be great as the last shirt you tried to use bleach on i ruined."

if you get a good response then you're set for a meeting. be suave

IF you call or text her right away, DO NOT re-call or re-text unless she does first.

If she doesn't return your text or call and you re-text or re-call, you're toast. He who cares less wins. If she doesn't respond to your text or vm, wait a week, consider it a lost cause and only then do you consider recontacting her because you have nothing to lose at that point. And beware, at that point, she WILL consciously use you for an ego boost at your expense, so even an IOI, such as text back or an answered phone call isn't always a good thing after she's already won the 7 day stand off.

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Alphagame

it's raining like a bitch outside, i decided to wait it out and work game elsewhere for the time being. if i see her anytime in the next few days i am banking she will bring it up on how i said i was going to call her to not calling her at all, i will say i have been really busy lately and i haven't been able to call or something, and i will try to set something up then and there. SINCE she splashed the beer in my face at that party, i am going to use this angle and say "you owe it to me to walk to my dorm and help me get the stain out of my shirt" (i'm in a single) but she is a very stubborn girl so idk how that is going to play out. any other suggestions incase i run into her when having not called her when i said i would? and also any tips on getting her to walk to my place instead of me going to hers, i am pretty sure if i get her to my place it is a definitely IOI, i have at least 1 so far, and that would put me in a good position.. what you guys think? -Rye