Why Do I always end up being "Just a friend"



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A Sticking Point or SP is an issue you CONSISTENTLY run into.

It is NOT a point where you get stuck with ONE SPECIFIC GIRL.

A Sticking Point is:
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I keep getting LMR whenever I bring girls back to my place. This has happened at least 10 times already! What am I doing wrong?
A Sticking Point is NOT:
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I got LMR with this one girl! What do I do?
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If you have not already gone out and practiced enough to have a real Sticking Point from meeting an ABUNDANCE of women, YOU DO NOT DESERVE TO POST HERE.



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PostPosted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 4:08 am 
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Hey guys
For the last couple of months since I started game all I get is this message in the end whenever I see the level of interest in the girl towards me , its that they never see me as a sexual partner all I get is

"I Never thought of you that way"

Now I throw in my DHV and my attraction switches , a little bit of negs here and there, but is it because I dont look Hunky or something ?

I try to Kino Escalate and the maximum it reaches is cuddling but whats the reason guys ?

Ill never get pussy if I dont get the solution ...


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 11:29 am 
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Sometimes it's just a case of not pulling the trigger. I can't tell you how many friends I've seen fall short of the tree simply because they didn't k-close. Remember that being a PUA isn't about how you look, it's about how you game. It sounds to me like a fault in your game where by your targets aren't acknowledging your as part of your game. I'd work more on your attraction building. Be sure to get your targets to qualify to you more and be more assertive in your kino.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 09, 2008 11:34 am 
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Can you please specify attraction building ? I tried DHV etc but I dont think they hit


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PostPosted: Sun Jun 15, 2008 12:41 pm 
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The answer is simple...you stayed too long in comfort and you only went forward into kino escalation when there was a strong and established rapport of you 2 being friends…this should have happened way back when you were just acquaintances and during attraction.


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PostPosted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 6:49 pm 
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nice 1


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 2:53 am 
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Your problem is most likely that you aren't understanding how little time it actually takes to get from introduction to kissing. I hear guys all of the time talking about kino escalating of the third and fourth date. Try the third or fourth minute! I have successfully kiss closed women within the first 20 seconds of an interaction. While that isn't common, it shouldn't take more than a few shared moments.

It is also clear that you aren't taking control of your interactions enough. The only men who women don't consider sexually at all, are men who women believe they have total control over. Any man who can dominate a conversation, be the most comfortable and outgoing in a room, can take charge of physical escalation, will at the very least be considered a sexual option.

Take a really hard and honest look at your DHVing and figure out what is lacking. As of right now, you must be sending off a very low value vibe. Consult as much literature as you can on the topic, and force your friends to be brutally honest with you. You are on your way man, just keep looking at your game as objectively as possible.

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