So things are definitely improved, half of it was just knowing what to look for so that I could respond to it and build on it, but I can get IOIs from just about anyone now, and sometimes maybe more too.

But I want more, specifically MLTR. How do I even broach this topic though? It seems that any way I suggest it is more likely to get me NLTR Does anyone have any suggestions or past experiences they can tell me about, I figure that like the other stuff this is just a problem to crack and once you get an edge or an angle on it then the whole thing should just sort of settle out and be so obvious. But I can't get that first angle or perspective or way of thinking about it... Help!!

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PS: Oh, and maybe this was dumb, but I agreed to be "in a relationship" with one girl on facebook, so yeah, that might have been dumb but I'm kind of stuck with that now.

I have 2 MLTR's at the moment...One I just got out of a relationship with...

MLTR's are really easy to develop...First of all, You need to show that you a busy/popular person with limited time; always "places to go people to see"...
I'm a uni student. I always say: that now Is not the right time in my life for me to settle down...Im 21 and my no.1 priority is my degree - "Im dating the degree" I simply don't have enough time and energy to dedicate to one person and if I was going be in a relationship I'd want to give it my best...

Now by conveying your a busy/popular person you are showing to the target that you time is finite and they should appreciate it because you don't just give your time to anyone...

K, now fromthe begining...This is how it's done

1) You meet, attract, comfort, Sleep with

2) You visit again, sleep with her again or atleast always keep the interation sexually charged...none of this friends bull-shit...where they could end up saying shit like your like a brother to me..

3) You never suggest that the relationship is going to be exclusive or permanent...but you show that you enjoy spending time with her and she should feel the same...

4) She knows that she now has 2 options: A). She can either continue seeing you as a free man...or B). Miss out on all the nice things that you you do for her and all the validation you provide to her...most will choose option A! even when they know your seeing other girls! It's insane [Always keep a strong frame]

* Also don't see the MLTR's every day, but if you do keep the time spent together at a minimum otherwise she'll think/know she's the only woman in your life and get pissed you havn't settled down.. Keep the interactions at no more than 3 times a week..

Now as for your "relationship" end it... Say to her...looking Im sorry but the whole exclusive thing, It's not for me I kinda rushed into this whole thing without giving it a lot of consideration...personally I don't think it's a good age to settle down when Im this young...I mean for gods sake I still have another 10/15 years before I would even consider anything so serious...do you think you would marry me? No...probably not? Then what are we doing...lets just take a step back from the whole relationship thing.. we can still be friends and hang out... Well thats what I'd like, I enjoy your comapny and don't want loose it...however a relationship at this stage is just too taxing on me and I can't do it...im sorry

Done...give her a few days to cool...off she and will contact you...well it worked for me anyway... then when you catch up...be vague about other women but never go into detail only allude.. she will become used to the idea that your seeing other people and will know not to become attached...

When you catch up sleep with again...but DONT EVER say any shit like I've missed you etc. because you are the guy that gets heaps of women you don't long for one particular woman..you like having many...

Good Luck