| Well im confused about what to do right now…let me start from the erm start…long read, im new at this and this is my 1st online that moved to a meet...
About a month ago now I did some online sarging and spoke to this girl (threads are in the online forum). After a few weeks of running internet msn game getting her number, spending time on the phone talking (mainly her calling me, I do the pua and run 15min convo’s every now and again), building attraction, and stuff for when we meet, we arrange to meet with much c&f convo going towards her saying I should pay for her because it’s a date, and so we met up.
The meet
It went cool, we ate, walked, talked, I negged, kino’d, I ran the day again from a1 and we kissed around c2, by this time we were 4hours into the meet she takes my hat and says she’s keeping it until we meet again (I was going to use that line neway), we spent a few more hours with each other, did some more c2, I run the 5questions….she has to take me to the cinema…kissed again spontaneous as we were walking arm in arm. We grabbed a coffee did some c1 and c2. We then said good bye and she initiated the kiss leans in, I go in and pull back getting her to come to me and we kiss, she gets her bus I get mine…5hours spent together face to face time
2 weeks on
Since then, we spent sometime on the phone until her minuets went about a week ago. Now we haven’t spoken so much…we speak on msn for a short time, I call her once or twice in the first week….last Sunday I call her and she virtually pushes me off the phone, convo lasts a little longer than 2min so I go cold on her. I have exams anyway so it wasn’t hard for me to go cold, I just did more revision so I haven’t been on msn since the convo. She txt me on the Monday and sends me an email on facebook
The email and text
The email said sorry in a round about way but not really saying sorry, the text said hey, how are u? Sent about 6hours after the email…I was in the library so didn’t reply to the mail or txt. I call her later that night….
The phone call
so i called her back when i got out the library and was like hey, and she said i wasn’t expecting u to call, i ask why because u pushed me off the fone last night and she goes i wasn’t that bad but i just fort you'd txt back because i txt u...i interrupted and said well i fort i'd call u back seeing as u desperately trying to contact me facebook and now a txt...she goes i wasn’t trying to contact u i toped up because i had other people to call...said in a joking way
then i asked her if she got with any guys last night she said last night was good by the way (in a joking way), then she explained why she pushed me off the phone and then told me she didn’t get with any1, i say yeah if u say so then she says, we aint 2gether so i dnt have to explain myself to u but if u don’t believe me that’s fine, then we joked about my hat and not meeting up and she said you know u will i was like no....then she goes ok i'll post ur hat
then just general talk about how her day was and then I cut the convo
she txt me later that night saying good luck for my exam which I had the next day.
Few days after (Wednesday night)
No contact till I sent a txt on Thursday night…just one that said did you know kiss and lips are spelt using the same keys on a phone, she txt back after a few mins. I reply after a few hours she replies the next morning, I don’t reply till Thursday when I say something about me going out.
Friday….i.e. today
Now this is where im confused.
I come on msn, she signs in 1mins after and says hi as soon as she does, we talk...just catch up I say im back free and back home near where she is next week and that I want my hat back.
I call her later on that night for 15mins…(shes starting to clock that I call for 15 mins she closes the convo before I do) we talk but now I feel like im back in a1, convo is general, noting much about us, hard to c&f, nothing to negg because I’ve done it all before. We kind of arrange to meet next week Friday when im back home and she has a day off...she’s not sure about meeting…she says she has a friend (homosexual male she told me about b4) who she arranged to meet so she’ll see if he is free in the night and fit me in for the day.
Where do I go from here I feel like there’s a big backwards step after the 2min convo we had on the phone and then the day after when I called her…she’s suppose to be taking me to the cinema next Friday because she lost the 5questions and the bet was to take each person out…she’s not says she’ll pay for herself but again isn’t sure about meeting etc...
What should I do on the Friday considering I feel like im back in a1…im thinking my time bridging didn’t work well but it has only been 2 or 3 days in-between talking?
thanks in advance
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