I was in the cinema with this HB and she was giving me a load of IOIs, and i could tell, but i just talked myself out of leaning over and closing the deal. Other than just working on my inner game, how could i overcome this (it has happened in cinemas a couple of other times before)

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I use the eye contact rule. If it holds for three seconds go for it.

build up to it. kino kino kino, and if you get positive responses, then go for it without doubt. it just takes balls. its an all or nothing, and if you can do it your a man, if ya cant, you just dont have it in you. thats all it comes down to. think about that next time your in that situation. its always a good motivator for me lol

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if shes handin out IOIs then yeh the eye contact is the deal. id be surprised if she didnt lean in first

maybe the cinema is not the best place for you to K-close. the eye contact rule is money, however its hard to make eye contact in the cinema so like they said work on kino and go from there

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I was JUST in a cinema Day 2. I know it's not the best place (by far) to go day 2, but it was special in this case since she thought the movie was out of the theaters, and she reaaalllly wanted to see it. Also we did more stuff before and after to strengthen the comfort.

So here's how it went : as we sit down, i put my arms around her. This feels natural since we both know we're on a date. *Cinema theaters screams date setting*.

Then i hold her hand with my hand, feed her popcorn with the hand that's over her, etc. Just working on kino. Then i did a few take-backs to make her feel comfortable *like take my arm off for a few secs to rearrange my seat/position and put it back*. That tells her that i am not a creep and i can control myself.

Then, since i say a gazillion funny things in movies usually, i fight not to tell her what's going on in my head, except for the best jokes. When that one came, i just shot it and she laughed super hard. When she stopped, she looked at me and i was shooting her the warmest smile i could summon. And then, after a few seconds of eye contact, it just felt so natural : we kissed.

Of course i had good attraction prior to stepping into the cinema. That was all comfort building.

so basically work on kino and work her up so that it feels comfortable for her to kiss you. Although i would suggest that if you get 3 IoIs or more, just go for it as soon as you find an opportunity. Find ways to go with the 3 secs eye-contact, it'll feel very natural.

I know this is an old thread. I was about to ask for help with the same issue. I chickened out at the last moment with this cool girl yesterday.

It's soo frustrating! I did everything right up to that moment, was being really smooth and all. She had given me countless IOIs, hair tossing, asking tons of questions about me, kino going strong and all, but I just couldn't do it.

Nice moves there in the cinema, bio! I'll remember that.

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I've had similar problems in past encounters, mainly just not noticing the right time to K-close then losing out altogether. One encounter ironically was a cinema also, looking back on it (was a long while ago) I must have had 1000 IOIs but didn't realise at the time (this was pre discovering the game and knowing what IOIs to look for) and blew it, I really realised I blew it like a month or 2 later when I saw her again (after that night I was locked in the LJBF zone), she had a boyfriend then and told me that she was dying to get with me that night but the feelings had long since passed. Curse my afcness That won't be happening again I assure you, I'd rather get a slap as a man than bow out like a chicken again.

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i agree with the three second eye contact thing. You will feel it so just do it. I can kiss close my target like 90% of the time. That is not hard for me but what is hard for me is getting past the kiss and escalating that is my sticking point.

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