Hi all,

I seem to be having a problem with flaking. Now, my question is not going to be dealing with flakes, because I know that's not the root of the problem. It's more to do with getting a girl to become more invested in an interaction.

I seem to be getting better at building attraction, and am getting a few number closes, but getting a lot of flakes. I know the basics of hoop theory, but can somebody give me a better idea of how to get more investment?

Are there any specific patterns or routines that have this incorporated...?

Thanks!

check it out. you can know all the routines in the world but it still may not help you. The one thing that is goin to make a difference is your creativity. but if you want a routine, here it is. Its pretty basic and helps them get into the mind set as seing you as a boyfriend:

PUA: So chek it out, you are going to be my new girfriend gor the next 5 minutes.

HB: for 5 min. huh?

PUA: thats right, and we are gonna go on an adventure girlfriend...

HB: oh really

PUA:yeah so you need to pick where we are gonna go for our adventure, and it cant be boring, cuz im interesting and i like to surround myself with interesting people..

HB: says place to go

PUA: what! BORING! you suck,we are so breaking up (push her away and then turn ur back to her)
HB: ugh...

PUA: well... ill give you another try cuz im nice (pull her in and hug her)
then just stack into the next routine. You can seriously get alot of kino with this one if you do it right. I use it all the time and consitantly kiss close. Also make sure you call her girlfriend every time you address her in that 5 minute time span... Hope this helps

^ I like that.

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yeah it works really good. Especially because its so adaptable. You can throw so much stuff in there. Its all up to ur imagination. It also gives you to start a conversation the next day on the phone or thru a text. Ex:

PUA: Hey ex-girlfriend, so im goin out with the boys tonight and i thought you should tag along. maybe you can be my GF for 10 mintues this time...

it works great and it puts them in that midset. When they start calling you boyfriend and crap you know its on...

Right, so you're saying using more bait-hook-reel-release will make her more invested. Okay, cool. Thanks.

My biggest sticking point is sometimes once I get into a set. I find myself not building enough attraction fast enough. I think I get nervous about negging maybe.

I'll ignore my target and then make it a point to show that I'm incorporating her into the conversation I am having with HER friends, to which I always get laughs. Then I make it seem like I'm patronizing her when I'm in larger sets. To get her friends laughing. I never having any trouble disarming the obstacles anymore, I can AMOG anyone anywhere, which is a good thing in this college town. I just have trouble getting her to follow me from, not being attracted to being attracted.

What is this whole I have.

I find myself thinking that I need to try some more...lame game. Attempting to see what these AFC's are doing and see what kind of reactions I can get. I can charm most of these girls, but its seems that they just think I'm a cool guy and I get the "You're intimidating" a lot... which is lame. What am I doing wrong?[/b]

So i am stuck in a rut and need a slump buster to get out of it but dont want to lower my standards.............

I don't date
I don't ask for numbers
I will give my number only when asked
Its all or nothing........ a lil bit of a different game but it has been working well the past few years..........


Any suggestions?