Let's go into direclty to the point .... i'm 19 years old, from that moment i'm living in U.K. ( Leeds, if somebody from there ... ) i'm a roumanian guy and my big problem is that i'm study seduction almost like .. 3 years and NEVER fuck a girl or a long relation, just some months ago i was to fuck a girl for money, an escort .... anyway, i loose all my motivaion all my 'trust' for seduction, if somebody want to talk with me about and give me an solution or say something, i don't know i'm just realy scared about talking with girls and anyway i have no idea how to do it ( Even if i study seduction almost 3 years i know theory but that's nothing ... even with theory i have no idea about what to talk with girls and i HATE all the seduction ideas/tehniques about what to talk with them ... )


So, thank you for making time to read entire thread.

If you study cars and read a million "how to drive" books for 3 years, you're still never going to be able to drive if you don't get behind the wheel and start practicing.

Your problem is that you let your fears stop you from practicing. You have to force yourself to do the stuff you're scared of doing.

Either that or you can just be a scared pussy who never gets what he wants in life. Your call.

About start practicing, i akwnoledged this about 1 year after i start seduction, about the indirect part: "Times not matter, the work you spend it matter" Yeap, i start akwnaledge this now .. after 3 years.
That's exactly what i want to read, thank you so much Chief, is more than enough for me, thank you

Put your money and your balls on the line and get to work.

Hire a coach, or do a boot camp.

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Is a good option, but i prefer only by using my forces, anyway i don't wanne become an GREAT MASTER PROFESSIONAL GRAND Pick up artist, i just want a girl to share together love and .. .sex ofcourse

However, chief answer is enough, he's right .. my fear always stoped me ... i just observe that all the time i'm close to succes or succsefully my goal always i get scared and lot OF FEAR(s) anyway, i will try to force me more times and talk with girls, thank you chief, and thank you Dragula for advice

A bootcamp doesn't turn you into a 'master PUA' lol

It speeds up the learning curve by surrounding you with other people in the same situation. You then seriously shock your soul and push your uncomfortzonee the whole weekend.

You won't turn into a ladiesman. But it can be enough to get you past that line of procrastination so you will never go back to the chode life again.

Do what you can. If you STILL haven't made progress in a month. Then consider my suggestion

It is what I needed. With some some serious hard work I consider my love life officially handled

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