SO, met this girl at party. Super cool chick. Circumstances have it that she comes to my place with a couple friends. Unfortunately she and her friends want to leave. We make out before she goes. I give her the initial text so she knows who it is an she's interested. Everything's going great. I invite her to a party next night she comes and we kiss passionately after. She tells me she has a boyfriend but is open for an open relationship. I invite her later on a walk 2 days later...she brings a fucking dude with us on the walk. I'm kinda annoyed at this point but keep my cool and escalate whenever I can and she's completely down with it. later he drives her to my house, I ask her to stay and have the dude leave she says she has something to do and leaves with him. SO tonight, we go on this double date type hangout with my wing and I. Eventually we come back to my house shoot the shit a little then my friend wants to leave with his girl an she wants to leave because she has a 10 o clock next morning. I become a little more persistent an tell her she's part of something amazing going on in my life and the opportunity may not present itself in a long while. she just says "It's not like I'll never see you again we'll see each other." makes out with me an then leaves. I am so fucking frustrated with this shit. This last event marks the 4th time we've chilled after the initial meet an we haven't had sex yet. I'm still gaming other girls but I really like this one and want to share my life with her. What do I do to improve this situation? I still think that there's hope for sex?

Urg... You don't even know her. Why to do people think like this about certain girls that they haven't even had sex with? Probably a lack of options probably. You want to make her monogamous when she is obviously poly?

This isn't even LMR. LMR is problems in the bedroom before it happens.

Your problem is that you're compromising on shit dynamics. You just give all your power to her if you reward this behaviour.

Stop going to parties, take her for a ONE ON ONE (private) drink and then escalate and lead to your apartment so you can get more than a makeout. If she declines a private drink, then you're wasting your time

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Also, learn to leave spaces and paragraphs when making long posts.

You are progressing well with this girl from the look at things. You still have chances with this girl but you can also fuck things up with neediness if you push too hard.

If I were in your shoes, I'd invite her for netflix and chill. Escalate from there and f-close. You have not met LMR yet.

Her excuse to leave your place might be a genuine excuse. Stop overthinking this bro.

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