I've both read and experienced different approaches for escalation once back at your place. The only times I have had LMR is when I did things slow with comfort i.e. back rub to kino then kiss etc and this was after an hour of prior comfort. The only times I didn't get lmr was when I literally went stright for it from behind with neck kissing, groping anD finger banging and most kof those chicks I had built on 10 mins comfort with sooo wtf. Depends on the chick too, but have you all noticed that if you try to be slow and comforting she'll think you're beta? I always fail when I try to be passionate and try not to freak her out.

I don't understand the question sounds like you typed the answer you are looking for???

yea I found that if you want to make a move or something it helps if you move around. For example you're sitting on the couch watching TV, and you say something to her so you can get her lips but she isn't catching on or what have you. Move her outside, or to the kitchen, where you have more opportunities to touch her and make your move. It makes it seem like you aren't trying hard to make something happen but it naturally occurs. Wasn't exactly an answer to your question, but it seems a lot of the time when you go the slow comforting build up route that it comes across as you are trying too hard to make it happen. When you go quickly the girl doesn't have as much time to overthink the situation and nature takes its course.