| She’s suddently cold, she’s not making eye contact anymore,
She s underage, the parents does not let her have a free lifestyle... they does not let her with boys
We met at a barbecue party, than we begin to text each other, saw a little bit, kino: only touching hand and grab her lower back, a lot of laughing together, one time, she admited on the phone that she likes me and she became very attached (BIG IOI)
so, day 2 happened at a birthday party,
we started to talk more, when i tried to kino, hold hands at fiat, hold lower back, she was very confortable, she was putting her head on my shoulder. She came because she knew we were going to hook up.
than everybody started to look at us like there was some show, they assumed that we were together,
her sister was there (the sister tells everything to her parents)
her father appeared in the scene, he felt anxious and he left,
than, (1 st problem) we found out that her father was dating another woman, she verified his fb profile, her uncle - witch i am in very good relationship, started to mumble about how idiot her father is and becasue he does nt let her date boys, and kiss me...
and i realised that she was starting to feel unconfortable
she said that to me
i tried to isolate her, let s go for a walk
she refuses saying: no, my sister is here
and at the end of the day, her uncle started to fight her aunt, the party was a fiasco
a day after, her mother left home, becuase of his father one night stand with that woman
i tried to give her a long message and say to her: hei, maybe it wasnt a great day for us, but we can try it when things are better with your family. i was worried about you not to get hurt by your father
after that, she responds the other day, she says that she s allright
but out chemistry was n t there no more
she does nt talk, she does nt make eye contact
she s very cold
i tried to find out if something is going on and she does nt wanna talk about the subject,
her father seized her phone a couple of times.
i just wanna know if there somethign i can do
her attitude before that was very opened.
and very into ... yes i wanna hook up with you
Do you thinks she’s ashamed of what happened to her family.
I need to maintain a certain distance and send her an old fashioned letter at least once a week, telling her how my your week was, (always positive energy).
Is it better to Dont talk much about that icident?.
just being there.
In a nonneedy way.
Being just a source of positive emotions.
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