Hey, thanks for taking the time to hear out my concern.

Previously when I was gaming hard core before this spat of rust, I had a nice flow of women.

I'd get numbers easily, set dates via text easily, close often, and easily let cold women go without a second thought.

Soon, I'm going to be running that stuff again, but a problem I faced was that unless I contacted the women to set up logistics I wouldn't hear back from them. I'm not talking about initiating contact here. I'm talking about girls who's already been on dates. And women who have been on dates and fucked.

When I contact them, they happily agree to what ever plans I make, and then do it. If I didn't reach out first to my flock then my phone was silent.

I want to hear from some guys who have their women constantly reaching out to them how to get to this dynamic.

I use text to set up logistics only during the first interaction, and I'll often say I'm busy when they try to send me rambling texts before the first date, so this may have something to do with it.

I don't want them sending me random text messages (though if that's a dynamic I need to accept to get them to reach out which will later turn into them trying to set up logistics with me, that's fine), but I want them to send me messages requesting to hang out.

I know one of you at least has to know how to do this. Thanks!

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"Keep your head up in the sky, you just a baby."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HccL8jUIIWU - Adoration of the Magi Lupe Fiasco

Building more attraction off the initial interaction will help, but if they are responding, you're good.

Change your expectations. These women have TONS and TONS of offers on the table. Focus on getting to the date and game her there.

Also you should not be her sounding board for all of her rants and thoughts, but responding to them in short but empathetic ways will train her to want to respond to you more. Set up the date so it's very soon after you numberclose the girl in the first place to avoid the dreaded text-friend zone.

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Chris
Dating Strategist
https://structureofdating.com/

When a guy asks how to make a girl initiate the conversations, he doesn't give her chance to... contact her once a week to set a definite date (stay on the phone no longer than 5-10 minutes) and she'll do the rest for you.

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I grew out of the dumb shit I used to say on here. Most of my posts don't represent who I am today at all.