People consistently ignore my messages/phone calls. This is despite it was THEM who approached me, and THEM who said I was fun and asked for my details.

If I call they don't pick up. If I text they don't respond.

I use AFC Adam's recommended text:
"Nice meeting you last night little cookie monster (or some other nickname based on callback humour). You always this friendly to strangers? - Bob"

Not needy, easy to reply to, yet consistently no replies from different girls whether it be from phone or Facebook.

Same with people I already know. I know they don't mind me and probably even like me to a degree as they constantly choose to sit next to me in lectures and talk to me first, but they take hours to give a short uninterested reply to my messages, regardless of how infrequently I text them, how short and non-needy or how humorous my texts were. The problem is most probably that I am not yet important enough for them for them to care that much, after all they only speak to me a few minutes per week before and after each lecture. But I don't know what other option I have. Just ask them out without any rapport?

I was quite popular in the various small cities I lived in. I didn't have to depend on phone game as I regularly encountered the same people over and over and could slowly but surely build rapport and attraction. Now I live in a big city where I feel like if I don't rush attraction and at least kiss close, I will lose any opportunity of seeing the girl ever again.

If you sent me this I wouldn't respond either. Not only do "I" find it a bit corny, but it doesn't sound like it's congruent with your personality at all. Just because something works for someone else doesn't mean it will work for you. A response isn't always based on what you say, its based on the energy that was exchanged during the interaction. I could have a certain interaction with a girl in which the first thing I texted her is "Fuck You" and the respond could be positive. Now you couldn't just text any girl "fuck you" and get a positive response unless it was in some way relayed to the discussion you had and/or the type of banter or energy you exchanged with the person during the interaction. Many of these canned lined worked for the guy who used it because of the confidence he has in himself while using it. It has little to do with his "words" and a lot more to do with "who" he is and "how" it was said.

I'd lean on my own personality for starter. You can cheat on the test all you like and score A's, but when life presence the real test you'll look like a fool. Now had you just not known all along you wouldn't be viewed in this like. But because you faked it and failed when it counted you are viewed at lot differently than the guy that never knew.

How many times has this happened to you? 2 times? 3 times? or more? You could be making a big deal out of something that hasn't happened too frequently.

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